To raise children - it is difficult and responsible. Especially heavy management of the child becomes when it reaches teenage age. Teenagers are not children, but yet not adults any more. During this period there is a formation of the personality; from time to time can seem that on the teenager there is no justice. It is important to parents and surrounding people to improve the correct relations with the teenager.
1. Constrain yourself inadvertently not to state reproaches or claims. At teenage age of a remark stanovit critical: they are remembered, the child begins to develop thoughts that leads to development of complexes and decrease in a self-assessment. Sometimes it seems to you that teenager ignores words. Believe - it is not so. Full ignoring comes when the teenager understands that he except reproaches, from you will hear nothing. Restrain, restrain and once again restrain.
2. At teenage age it seems to children that they are necessary to nobody that parents are present to them no business. Disprove it: you speak with the teenager so that he understood that you support him, you love that you are one family.
3. Conduct conversations and lectures only in benevolent tone. Only this way it is possible to hope that the teenager will pay attention to words.
4. Become the friend for the child. The friend can tell everything that oppresses and disturbs. Learn to be the attentive listener.
5. Before beginning a conversation with the teenager, be convinced that the visual contact is come with him.