Each family what happy from outside it would not seem has the problems. It is known that the relations in a family nest need to be improved always. However, it happens that everything goes to pieces therefore it is difficult to understand how to improve the relations with the wife, with the dearest person.
How to improve the relations with the wife: recommendations of the psychologist
- Be an attentive listener. She came tired from work? You should not climb with the councils. Stay the psychoanalyst. Just listen to her. Let's be uttered. Do not forget that if the man in despair, he does not call friends and to tell how to it it is bad. Its tactics in this case: to be closed in the inner world. With women all differently. Remember that you and the beloved wife – representatives of different planets, therefore at everyone the techniques of overcoming vital disorders and so forth.
- The woman always need a male shoulder what strong she would not want to seem. And therefore do not forget to indulge the girl in each woman, that infantile child that lives in each of us. Do not offer her the help, and get down at once to business.
- Respect and her desires. Agree that sometimes you are perplexed when, having one hundred things in a case, it says that she has nothing to put on this evening. She bought a new jacket? Show respect for its choice. Shopping it not only removes internal stress, but also wants to give you pleasure. There is a wish to look beautiful it, first of all, for own husband.
- Freedom of action. Each person wants to be alone. The woman – not an exception therefore give her an opportunity most to walk on the park or to sit in cafe. Do not condemn its acts.
How to improve the relations with the ex-wife?
Families break up. It is not a secret. Lucky persons those who managed to keep the friendly relations with the former spouse. But everyone is capable of it. It is worth wanting:
- Kind of to you it was not heavy how many the rage on the wife in you would not be, do not show in relation to it hostility. Under any circumstances praise it. The anger is only capable to destroy.
- Even, if it does not celebrate more Birthday with you, always do not forget it to congratulate. Be above feeling of revenge and not forgiveness.
- If the spouse seeks to manipulate you by means of the general children, perceive it quietly. Continue to fulfill peacefully parental obligations, and the law will be on your party.
- In case there was desire, to return former happiness with it, get rid of habits, what became an apple of discord between you. Prove the acts that you became better, to others.
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