In the house, repair is started, and the husband avoids to make something useful. It is necessary to use female cunnings and to force the spouse to help about the house. Also do not forget to praise darling.
The woman – a neck
It is often possible to hear from the woman various claims to the husbands. Is small, such as cleaning, carrying out of garbage to sit with the child, and more large-scale, for example, to make repair in the apartment. As a result everything comes down to one: the husband does not want to give any support and the help during apartment renovation or house. However, as the popular wisdom, "the man the head, and the woman a neck" so everything depends on you says. And to induce him to do what is necessary for you it is quite feasible. The most important, you remember: any reproaches.
You politely ask
Mandative tone – a big mistake of all women. You teach children of politeness and if they ask something, then it is obligatory with the word "please", and forget about this simple rule. If it is polite to ask to make the husband together with you repair in the apartment, it will not be able to refuse. Of course, the bigger activity wants on the house from the husband. It is quite natural, considering what work to you to have to do every day. Everything is very simple, the same quiet and friendly tone ask it to beat the shelf or to buy some trifle for apartment renovation. The main thing – at the same time motivate it, that is you praise and show very clearly that you after all the weaker sex and in any way not to do you without it, and you without beloved spouse will not be able to make the first-class repair. Men love a praise and very much need it, but even more they love when they it are told directly. Therefore it is possible to tell several tender words for you, and it will be very pleasant to it, and he will grant any your desire.
Never begin a conversation with claims and the words "I want". And if you need to update completely the apartment then too tactics of tranquility and a request works. Otherwise not to do without unpleasant talk. And here if you say a little confusedly, having looked down and having hung the head, then the man will definitely not resist and will make everything if only his darling was happy and smiled. In order that he made something at home and helped with repair, speak constantly what he is a great host what clever fingers at it, etc. He will not want that your opinion on it changed therefore in the same second will go to do about what you ask. As you can see, everything is quite simple, the main thing be more flexible and cunning and if you need something, then you speak without reproach and scandal. Men too in certain cases are auditory, and it will be much more pleasant to them to hear your pleasant tone, than eternal shouts and discontent.