Sometimes after parting with the person it is possible to realize that he was that with whom you are ready to carry out for the rest of the life. If you are sure of it, it is possible to try to return the former man.
How it is correct to interest former?
The similar adventure demands big care and sensitivity. Return of the former man something reminds domestication of a wild cat. Any mistake will reject you on many steps backwards and it is necessary to begin all over again.
Begin to communicate with it as with the ordinary acquaintance, you pass to a priyatelstvo after a while. All this will demand forces and time. It is necessary to restrain in similar situations not to throw the arms round a neck to the man after the first warm words. It can lead only to banal "friendly sex" and your relations on it and will clog.
You have to behave exactly and predictably, constrain yourself. Show goodwill and care without strong "peak" emotions. Analyze your relations, understand mistakes. Do not show at all those emotions which became the gap reason. Do not quarrel at all, do not show a negative and offenses.
Try to use some pleasant for your being things – your perfume which is pleasant to it, clothes of its favourite color... Similar pieces work with peculiar anchors which can wake in the man former feelings.
Try to make so that your being at your presence felt most comfortably. You monitor expression of the person, appearance – you have to be quiet, benevolent and sure. Do not coquet with the former man at all.
Never discuss a negative in former
Under no circumstances do not discuss with it that went not so in your last relations. Even if he will try to speak about it. Change the topic of conversation. If there is a need, tell the man that all this negative in the past, and you would not like to endure it again. Only you tell it delicately and softly. It is impossible to show that this subject strongly touches you. When you anew make friends with the being, begin to come back to the past, mention the most pleasant memories in a talk. They have to be romantic, leave a sensuality and sexuality for later. Remember places where at you there took place the best appointments, start talking about it, and then track its reaction. If your ex-boyfriend does not show any positive emotions, means it is necessary to wait still some time. If the response is, continue in the same spirit, only do not remember similar romantic places or events too often. Once on several meetings – ideal frequency.
At this stage be not afraid to invite him to "friendly" meetings of the first. Do not wait until he calls you, do not go according to the habitual scenario.
If your being after all done actions wants to drag in a bed, do not give in on provocation. Especially, if it has difficult relations with the present girl. If in it still romantic feelings fully did not wake up, sex at this stage will go to the section "friendly" too, so, will lead you into a blind alley. Refuse embraces, kisses and caress it is soft and sure, the man has to have a feeling that business is exclusive in moral aspect. When your relations are restored fully, from the man romantic interest will appear, he will call you on an appointment, here then it is possible to pass also to a bed.