Today, thanks to rapid development of new technologies, a rarity the fact that acquaintance on social network comes to an end with the long and strong relations, and at times even with marriage is not any more. It is much simpler to get acquainted on the Internet, than in life. And the refusal is not perceived so humiliating and unpleasantly, as in reality.
Before calling the girl on an appointment, many young people try to pick up the suitable candidacy and to get acquainted with it VKontakte, but not somewhere on the street. And in this way of acquaintance there are many advantages. Having got acquainted with the nice girl in life, it is unknown whether will attract still something, except her appearance. On social networks on a page of the user it is already possible to draw some conclusion on it after reading of the questionnaire and viewing photos.
After the suitable girl in contact was chosen, it is necessary to think up as it is possible to interest her on correspondence.
How to interest the girl on correspondence – psychology
To manage to interest any woman, both in life, and on correspondence, it is necessary to be well-read, competent. Therefore it is always necessary to develop itself in different areas. Great advantage will be if it turns out to attract the girl with the appearance. Therefore regular visits of the gym will do only good.
Acquaintance and the first correspondence to the girl is very important point. If it is not possible to draw attention to itself and to interest the interlocutor, then further communication with it can already and not to be.
Corresponding with the lady, it is necessary to take care of spelling. With gross spelling mistakes written messages often tear away all interest at girls. You should not forget about good manners and to completely exclude in correspondence with the representative of an opposite sex obscene language.
Little flirtation and the compliments told with sincerity will do only good and will add chances of communication continuation.
What to write to the girl to interest her – examples
To manage to attract interest and positive emotions at the interlocutor not each guy is capable. It happens for the reason that many males do not wish to think out original subjects for a conversation. The banal questions "How Are You Doing?" and "What Are You Doing?" will hardly be able to attract some young lady.
Reflecting on in what question it is possible to interest the girl on correspondence, it is necessary to learn to think creatively. Unexpected questions which are asked the beauty not often will be able to draw attention. For example:
- "what would you make if for one day you became a guy?";
- "what do you think of smoking/alcohol?";
- "present that we with you together appeared on the desert island. What would we do?" (Do not forget, then to tell the option of succession of events);
- "what qualities you appreciate in people?";
- "to which of parents you are more similar?";
- "in whom you dressed up on children's morning performances?";
- "what was your favourite toy in the childhood?".
It should be noted that questions of the childhood very interesting in itself. From them it is possible to develop for a long time a subject for a conversation, supplementing communication with amusing stories about the childhood.
Interesting and unusual questions it is possible to think up the whole set. The main thing that topics of conversation were pleasant to both. Optimum, if the main part of questions is about the girl, her appearance, character, activity, etc. Of course, all conversation should not consist only of some questions. It is periodically necessary to supplement it with easy stories about itself and the unostentatious statements of own opinion on any given occasion.
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