The first impression, though can be deceptive, is remembered forever and, at times, it plays a key role in whether the relations will proceed further. Therefore special attention needs to be paid to at once to attract interest of the man.
Instruction
1. Use humour. Most of men appreciates ability thinly and originally to joke in women. But before using your abilities, observe what sense of humour at the man – pick up his wave and "float" in one direction.
2. Behave surely. The excessive confusion and inappropriate modesty attract not each man. Therefore it is better to appear before him in shape of the courageous and strong woman. Do not try to surpass it in a word or business only at all – the man has to feel the superiority over you.
3. Be interested in his opinion. Men need to feel clever and competent. Therefore if you ask his opinion, ask council or show interest in his point of view, then he by all means will estimate it and will open to you.
4. Show trust. Even at the first acquaintance was it can be done able and it is not affected. For example, you can provide it the choice of cocktail for you, having told: "I do not doubt that you are a good judge of it. I will trust in your choice". As you recognize more him, will be able to show trust and in other areas.
5. Emphasize what unites you. The community of interests can rally people various at first sight because it is a basis of the relations, and then already deeper factors.
6. Support a conversation. Give to the man an opportunity to speak, but do not undertake an initiative. Be able to support the interesting its topic, but if you do not understand what it is about, or are not strong in the matter, then be not afraid to recognize it. After all, it is impossible to know only. And it is much more pleasant to realize the restrictions, than to pretend that you understand what it is about, and then to be as a result exposed in the incompetence.
7. Smile and be open. The sincere smile, visual contact and gestures of open type will show that you are ready kindly and open for trusting relationship. At the subconscious level it is capable to affect a brain of any man and to hook on it.
8. Allow to care for you. If the man is not too initiative, then can show him that you need his help. And he by all means will render it – otherwise cannot be, he is a man.