Many women wait for the first step from the man, but finally, they very often should take a situation in hand. It concerns both the initial stages of the relations, and decision-making in the future, but is deserved by the most disturbing moment the first correspondence in networks or personal contact in real life is considered. What to ask the elect and how to behave not to push away him — here the main questions of this article.
What attracts in girls?
The first impression — always the strongest therefore gathering for an appointment with the new acquaintance, try to think over the image to trifles, beginning from the choice of clothes and finishing with the corresponding features of behavior. Not to be mistaken in it, it is useful to foreknow what girls are pleasant to modern men.
The list of requirements here not so long as much seems and consists of only several key features:
- Try not to go too far in cosmetics. The thick layer of foundation, bright lipstick and bright shadows are not that to be pleasant to your satellite, most of men always appreciate naturalness. The easy day make-up is quite enough for a visit of cinema or visits of cafeteria.
- The dress chosen for a meeting has to be moderately modest, covering a breast and the top part of legs. Of course, nobody speaks to dress up in long shapeless loose overalls, but at the same time the man should not have an impression of easily availability of his companion.
- Pay attention to a smile. Contrary to popular belief, it most of all attracts attention of an opposite sex therefore you should not hide it during the appointment.
- The behavior, gestures and manners is one more important group of requirements which cannot be avoided. Do not forget that the man by the nature the defender therefore it is pleasant to it to be approved in this opinion. The woman, on the contrary, has to seem weak that her satellite wanted to make every effort and become her a reliable support.
- The good breeding, literacy and accuracy — are also highly appreciated by men therefore you can safely show them in suitable situations.
Try to make an impression of the lovely girl, from naivety shares in a look. However, and to you it is not necessary to change as having suspected falseness of your behavior, most likely, the man just will lose interest in you.
Whether you know? The happiest marriages consist between the best friends who for years of close communication managed to learn about all features of character of each other. Besides, also the lack of a big age difference as statistically peers get divorced less often than couples from an essential difference in this plan will help to increase chances of success of such union.
The capriciousness, excessive nonsense, hysteria and bitchiness act as unattractive female qualities therefore if you really want to interest the elect, try in all ways to get rid of them.
As well as in what to interest the man?
The choice of a way of drawing attention of the man depends on features of your communication with it. At direct, real contact, it is possible to seduce the elect not only by means of words, but also by means of a look or a coquettish smile what you will not tell about virtual correspondence. Let's consider several main features of productive behavior in each of these cases.
In real-life communication
As we already spoke, the first appointment — the most responsible, at you will not be any more chance to correct the developed first impression. That it did not become the last, let's understand all nuances of appearance and behavior of the woman.
Appearance
The most important rule when choosing clothes — lack of vulgarity therefore with a deep decollete it is better not to look at short miniskirts and jackets, especially if they at you are put by a set. Try to pick up at the same time stylish and modest dress as it is most of all appreciated by serious men at the first meeting.
The color palette of attires also has to correspond to more strict style. As advantageous, very womanly option are considered pastel tone: for example, it is possible to put on a light dress of light-beige color or to add with such blouse classical jeans in which it will be most convenient to you during walk.
Important! Always be interested at the man where exactly you will go as ripped jeans are badly combined with expensive restaurant, and in an evening dress it is not really convenient to feed ducks on a pond.
The make-up also has to correspond completely to the place and the atmosphere in which there will take place your appointment. For a party in night club it is possible to make it brighter (of course, keeping sense of proportion), and here for day walk or a picnic try to remain as much as possible natural that is always highly appreciated by men. Special attention should be paid also to hands. The skin on them always has to be soft and nice on the touch, and manicure on nails — the freshest. Oblezshy varnish — a taboo, and not only for the first appointment, but also for all subsequent meetings as demonstrates negligence of the girl. Also you should not paint nails in bright tone or to do their ends too sharp, the fashion for such manicure passed for a long time.
As for aroma of perfume, it is better to choose the most gentle and fresh smells, without sickening sweet or sharpness: spirits should not stand between you or remain on everything what you touch. In other words: in everything adhere to moderation and then you will definitely not lose in creation of the image.
Self-confidence
Confidence and self-confidence — different things and if the first line attracts men, then the second can easily push away. It is simple to notice the sure woman on light step, lack of constraint in movements and a sincere smile.
Such persons will never hide eyes, it is awkward to be confused or avoid the next answer to the questions posed that often creates the atmosphere of tension and cannot affect a good outcome of the first appointment. Try to behave relaxedly, but with respect for standards of decency and maintaining some mysteriousness in image.
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Ability to carry on a conversation
Simple and easy conversation — a significant part of any appointment, however if you for the first time see the person, then rules of conversation acquire still big relevance. Always accurately answer the questions posed, do not interrupt the interlocutor and do not tell him too much about yourself.
At the first meeting subjects of prosperity, health of relatives, features of private life and the more so last relations are considered as inadmissible (chanting of merits former or, on the contrary, an excessive negative in its party can only push away your new acquaintance). Support the topic of conversation, from time to time asking the questions interesting you, but only so that the man did not have a feeling of interrogation. It is better to tell a little about himself, leaving subjects for the subsequent meetings. In a conversation with the interlocutor always pay attention to the slightest trifles, a manner and logicality of stories. Sometimes, hardly noticeable nuances can tell about the person more, than the most detailed description of his life.
Flirtation
Flirtation or as it still call coquetry — congenital ability of most of girls which, by the way, is the useful tool in seducing of the man. The first in this plan eyes are involved. Try to look in the face to the interlocutor several seconds, and then to smile and to take slightly a look aside. Most likely, such action will raise a reciprocal smile at the man.
Important! To women, with not really model appearance on the first appointment it is better to put on a dark dress and shoes on an average heel, and, choosing a successful pose, it is worth paying attention to position of a body a semi-side that will create illusion of diminutiveness.
After a while repeat all actions and again present the elect with a mysterious look, thereby letting know the interest in it. Beautiful and well-groomed hair can also help with flirtation. For example, the girl can reject accurately curls back, baring a neck, and maybe it is simple to stroke locks during the conversation (constantly it is not necessary to finger tips).
Well and of course, it is impossible to forget about legs. It is good if you have almost model appearance and put on on an appointment beautiful shoes under the fitted dress, in this case it will be possible to accept a pose a leg for a leg, periodically accurately changing their situation. Such movement will definitely not remain unaddressed your satellite, but nevertheless you should not abuse such movement.
Correct positioning
Any serious man will hardly expect from you excessive relaxedness at the first meeting or especially continuations of evening in more lonely situation. However that he did not even think over such opportunity to each decent girl it is necessary to build up correctly from first minutes of communication the relationship with it, positioning itself as I pardon, dobra, sociable, but at the same time the modest and unapproachable personality. Usually such behavior only attracts men, after the first appointment remains so many untold. The correct arrangement of priorities — important ability not only in professional activity, but also in private life. Therefore you need for to understand that you wait from the current appointment and to build the behavior according to desirable result: at first had a good time and availability of all interesting information on the interlocutor, and already then trust of you and reciprocal satisfaction of his desires (the truth, in this question it should be taken into account also the requirements).
However, such behavior has to become the norm and for further communication as men always appreciate women who know the own worth, remaining at the same time kind and appeasable.
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Lifestyle
The lifestyle of the new acquaintance often makes a bigger impression, than her appearance on her satellite. For example, if you meet the athlete, he for certain will estimate also your interest in similar activity, let you some once a week visit the gym.
Observance of rules of a healthy lifestyle will never remain not noticed as for the serious relations each man will choose to himself the woman without problems with health, and it not very well does it consciously or his subconsciousness works. If your relations promptly develop and frequent appointments become norm, it is possible to share plans for the next several years with the elect, to discuss the habits, flavoring preferences and to tell about a hobby. It is quite probable that you will have still a set of the general subjects for a further talk.
In correspondence or in a conversation
Many modern relations begin on social networks therefore before business reaches a real conversation to the girl it is necessary to know how to interest the young man in the text message. In the simplest option you should respond the stranger to his message, and here the main objective is to show a goodwill maximum in the response message. It should not be too dry or too long, the main thing — moderation.
If you have a person in friends, but communication still did not come out, it is possible to write to the first, referring to interest in its kind of activity, the pet or hobby which are usually well displayed in personal data. If the conversation was started, and you already began to discuss features of activity of each other, it is possible to tell about the hobby, to share plans for the near future (it is desirable that they were connected with study or work, but not a successful marriage and existence of a large number of children). There is a number of subjects which bravely can be mentioned during correspondence with the guy:
- rest with friends (especially if similar pastime is confirmed by photos on its page);
- musical preferences;
- favourite places in hometowns;
- travel;
- work (study).
Deliberating over what SMS to write, it is worth learning what you should not speak about. So, at correspondence too frequent messages are considered as inadmissible, especially with the questions where was gone? or why you do not write?. Also you should not send in each message five smiles which can be regarded as diffidence or lack of imagination for the original text answer. In response to compliments instead of dry thanks, it is possible to write that it is very pleasant to you, but you should not speak about the same remarks from other guys.
Whether you know? The attention to the woman from other men only warms up passion of her elect and even acts as a peculiar aphrodisiac, sometimes strengthening the relations in marriage. However everything has to be moderately, if to go too far in feeling of jealousy, it is quite possible to push the half to another.
At personal contact the same recommendations will be appropriate unless your conversation will quicker take place. If at discussion of any question your opinions differed, do not try to overpersuade the interlocutor in the correctness. The open conflict even if it is insignificant, will not lead to anything good, just tell that you have in this respect the opinion, though his point of view is rather interesting.
Also you should not check the man for jealousy, telling about the last relations or the real admirers. At most, what is allowed in such cases — correctly to answer the questions posed, trying to offend nobody. For the rest, at any kind of communication, try to remain open, but at the same time unostentatious that your elect most wanted to communicate with you more often.
In a bed
Any relations cannot do without intim therefore in this question the main time: someone decides on proximity earlier, and someone prefers to hold off it. If you are interested in long relations with the chosen man, then it is desirable to listen to the last girls, remembering a men's instinct of the hunter. Everything that comes easily to be appreciated much less therefore the lack of intimate proximity at first will only set on your elect, and an object of its inclination will become even more attractive. However, and here it is important not to go too far, in modern realities hardly someone to agree to wait prior to a wedding.
When your communication reaches logical continuation, it is possible to buy safely beautiful linen (many men like lacy versions) and is preparing for the responsible moment. As for male preferences in this plan, they are especially individual though anyway you should not surprise the elect too with wealth of experience. It will be pleasant to any man to learn, but not to be pupil, but also it does not mean yet that the woman needs to play a role of the clamped and diffident personality. Be attentive, careful and open, daring to relax completely.
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How to draw attention of the man of certain zodiac sign?
Many astrologers at seduction of the man advise to pay attention and to its zodiac sign which features are often displayed on character. So, the Arieses, Scorpions, Aquarius or people born under other constellations often have individual characteristics which are useful for considering in love affairs therefore we will consider the main features of each sign:
- Usually male conquerors who are negative both to ignoring, and to excessive assertiveness from the lady belong to him. If you allow it to become your defender and the chief adviser in difficult life situations, thereby only confirming his force and high mental abilities, the Aries will definitely not want to refuse you. It is just that case when it is useful to show the weakness and vulnerability.
- In this case when choosing strategy of seduction pay more attention to gentle words and tactile feelings which such men need stronger than other signs. Besides, they have high sensitivity to refined aromas therefore it is useful to pick up gentle, rather fragrant spirits and regularly to use them. And here jealousy in this case not the best decision for heating of interest of the Taurus. Practically all representatives of this sign are owners therefore even innocent flirtation with another can lead to the serious conflict.
- At communication with them it is necessary to be ready to constantly to surprise the satellite. Do not allow it to miss with you, remain always mysterious and try to develop constantly in the intellectual plan (it will allow to support interesting conversations).
- It is possible to surprise the man born under this sign by means of the culinary abilities as it is that case when the way to his heart lies through this body. At the same time, prepare that you should show constantly an initiative in all life situations and to reconcile to frequent changes of mood. Crayfish very responsibly treat family values and traditions therefore for them it is very important to trust completely the partner and to feel the importance.
- For gain it is useful to play Lviv on their high self-assessment. Having given couple of compliments or having praised for specific action, for some time leave aside that almost for certain will cause bewilderment in the man. However, here it is necessary to be extremely accurate not to wound vanity what this sign does not forgive. Besides, do not forget to watch the appearance: such man has to have ideal everything therefore it is desirable to avoid dresses with ruches and rhinestones.
- With the male Maiden it is desirable to behave as much as possible naturally, trying to explain directly what you from it wait for. The openness of the darling for certain will fascinate him though he will estimate spiritual relationship and similarity of interests not less.
- In this case the appearance should find a lot of time, muzhchiny-Vesy often fall in love with the beautiful women who created an image to such themselves the fatal lady with a great number of admirers. For the further long relations it is worth developing at itself the high level of cleanliness and to prepare that not told it is worth treating everything seriously sometimes your expectations can simply not be met.
- It valid one of the heaviest signs in communication with which to you it is necessary to be constant on the alert, every time thinking as how to write (on the same Internet) or to tell at a personal meeting. In the relations such men appreciate the physical relations more therefore intim for them costs in the forefront. However, if you present it feeling of exclusive importance in your life, surround it with tenderness and care, he will never want to look on the left. It is good if his darling likes to rummage in herself and to talk about extraterrestrial civilizations, but even if it not so then do not laugh at its theories, differently you will seriously offend the elect.
- Sagittarius. Prefers cheerful, sociable, sincere and enthusiastic women to whom the boredom, despondency and monotony are alien. Besides, you should not limit its freedom, forbidding to communicate with friends or constantly carping at separate features of behavior. Muzhchina-Strelets — that option which can tell about the admirers and to show the independence that will do good to the relations.
- First of all he will appreciate diligence, material welfare and the high social status of the woman. However, for him such qualities as fidelity, decency and morality will be not less relevant, and here the bright appearance is not what it is possible to hold such man.
- With muzhchinami-Vodoleyami it is necessary to be different all the time and interesting, without turning into the boring and captious personality at all. All this is alien to this sign and causes only negative emotions at communication with the woman. It is also good if the darling has an interesting and unusual hobby allowing it to be allocated against the background of other women.
- Men of this sign do not stand vulgar and imperious women, but feed interest in those who have similar hobbies: for example, occult sciences or various spirituality. Show to the darling that you are ready to the long relations, regularly asking him council in single questions or having entrusted some secret. muzhchin-Ryb it is better to thank for the rendered services more often.
Regardless of concrete sign of Zodiac, any person hopes for the valid and attentive attitude towards himself therefore whom you would not meet, always focus the attention on it, being interested in everything that will help to learn more about the elect. Further it will surely help you, at least, so the psychology and personal experience of many women claims.