At the time of our grandmothers the girls waited until the guy himself shows an initiative and will suggest to meet. It is possible to follow, of course, traditions, but to wait - it is so boring! And what if most to invite the guy to an appointment? There are several councils which will be useful depending on a situation.
It is required to you
- In any situation you need to have a fresh make-up, well-groomed hands, an accurate hairstyle (certainly, hair have to be clean!) and stylish dress. First of all you have to be pleasant to yourself.
Instruction
1. Be courageous. If you see the guy whom did not meet earlier (it is admissible, in cafe, in the museum or even at the bus stop), you need to solve at first whether he is worth it to invite him to an appointment. Approach it and bring with it a short conversation about anything - about the dish chosen by it (to cafe), about the artist whose pictures hang before you (in the museum), about weather (at the bus stop). In 10-15 minutes of a conversation you will understand whether you want to go with this guy on a date. If the inner voice prompts to you that it is worthy option, be frank and directly ask whether he wants to go with you to one cafe, or on other exhibition, or just to walk in the park. What you heard in reply, keep a cheerful and easy look. Girls with despair in a look do not attract men. If your society is pleasant to the guy, he will agree. And what cannot be cured must be endured, and in general, look, over there one more nice guy, maybe, it is worth approaching him?
2. Be distinguished. If you were fond of the guy who visits together with you, for example, yoga courses, you have an advantage in the form of daily demonstration of the advantages. Always put on beautiful bright clothes occupations, watch impeccability of a hairstyle and make-up. In a break start with it a friendly conversation about your occupations (or about work - if you are colleagues). Smile to it, try to make laugh him, joint laughter - the fine beginning of flirtation. During the conversation kind of accidentally touch his hand. If it caught a hint, then at the next meeting you, most likely, will exchange phone numbers. And if you are not able to wait, invite him to drink on a juice glass in bar of your fitness club or in cafe nearby. So you will be able, without adjusting an event, to define whether really it is ""your"" object.
3. Be honest. If it is pleasant to you for a long time and you would like bigger, than just to be friends, just admit to it it. Ask it to sit down and directly tell that you to it feel. This recognition can dumbfound the guy slightly, especially if still it had no occasion to notice your sympathy. If he feels to you the same, you inevitably agree about an appointment. If is not present (or if he looks slightly shocked with such news), tell it that shared with it the feelings because you trust it and that you do not wait for the same in reply at all. Explain that your friendship is very important for you and you want to maintain it. Be sincere, saying it.
4. Be mysterious. This way is good for club or any other place where many people gather. Promptly pass by it and ""accidentally"" shoulder it. Then turn back to it, broadly smile and apologize. Most likely, he will smile in reply. When he makes it, again smile and depart. Communicating with friends, try to be in the field of his sight. Sipping the drink, periodically try to catch his eye and smile to it. If he correctly apprehended your signals, then will invite you to dance. Dancing with him, you will be able to take one more step on the way to rapprochement, to chat on a noisy dance floor, it is necessary to speak to the partner on an ear.
5. Be enterprising. In bar ask the waiter what is drunk by that young man, and send to his table the same drink together with a note. If the action takes place in cafe, send it a gift in the form of something sweet, for example cake, having accompanied a gift with a napkin with your name and the phone number. It is also possible to invite him to keep you the company. Such courtesy will be pleasant to any guy and if it did not react probably it just the bore in any way. However if you consider that he is simply timid, approach him and strike up a conversation.