How to keep family after crisis: councils of the psychologist

How to keep family after crisis: councils of the psychologist

Any human relations undergo some changes sooner or later. Spouses begin to cool down to each other over time, the passion and love are replaced by a habit. Crisis comes to the relations. However even from such situation there is an exit.

Instruction

1. The first signs of family crisis is reduction of desire of both spouses to intimate physical proximity, lack of desire to be pleasant, lack of understanding, mutual reproaches and many other things. If you noticed that in your family there is no harmony and happiness any more, you have to begin to use the best efforts keeping family. First of all protect yourself from desire to reproach the soulmate with everything and to blow up on trifles. Perhaps, the person makes some nonsense, and in response to it receives the mass of your negative, scandal and beaten ware. It cannot be done. As soon as you understand that your feelings begin to boil, try to avoid collision. Leave from a conversation, go to walk or turn on the music in earphones and try to relax. When you calm down, it will be much easier for you to find a common language with the husband or the wife.

2. Learn to forgive the soulmate and always to reach compromise. Remember that in family it is impossible to be obsessed only with the desires, except you with you there lives nearby one more person who has requirements and dreams too. Try to agree, find common interests and aspirations. Do not inflate from a fly of an elephant apropos and without cause and also you understand the beloved. If you from each small quarrel develop scandal and long offenses, you will never be happy.

3. Remember that your spouse or the spouse has to have the personal space. Do not try to limit it at all. You should not forbid the darling to communicate with his friends, to have a rest separately from you. You should not try to check its phone or the laptop in hope to find there something compromising. Trust each other, any relations are under construction first of all on trust.

4. Perhaps, over time your passion began to cease, but it should not result in lack of intimate proximity. Try to bring a variety your sexual life. Look for the new ideas and opportunities and surprise the partner. Erotic massage, outright dance or something else for certain will be able to warm up your feelings again and to establish relation between you and your soulmate.

5. Do not forget also about pleasant joint rest, mutual compliments, romantic appointments, care and small gifts which will bring heat and love in your relations.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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