In marriage quite often family relations experience crisis. At this situation it is necessary to decide whether it is worth going further with the person on life or it is better to divorce, remaining in the friendly relations.
Instruction
1. Family life - not paradise, in it often there are quarrels and the conflicts between spouses. The question is in how negative situations what conclusions at the same time are drawn are solved. If the husband and the wife understood that they hurried at the time with the press in the passport that except love and passion to each other them connected nothing, then the divorce will be the best decision for both. As love has property to disappear over the years. If it is not fed with mutual respect, mutual understanding and care, then marriage is doomed to disintegration. And it is senseless to build the relations on sand.
2. If spouses are connected by something bigger, than love, for example agreement of opinion or support of each other, the crisis moments of family life it is worth overcoming. For a start it is worth understanding because of what you began to clash with the husband. In what the true cause of quarrels and offenses. Have with the spouse a heart-to-heart talk, find out quietly and without emotions who in what is right. If the conversation in house conditions did not turn out, then it is possible to address the family psychologist who will listen to you, will consult and will make recommendations.
3. If it is difficult to get on in one apartment, then it is necessary to part and consider all situation separately for some time. Only it is not necessary to discuss a temporary break with the spouse with members of household, it is better to analyze and draw conclusions on current situation, without someone's hints.
4. When you have a rest from each other, it is necessary to meet and discuss further joint life. Who what conclusions drew, who as sees family life. Then it is possible to arrange a repeated honeymoon, to go to those places where you were happy and where experienced positive emotions. To go to the cinema on the favourite movie; to sit at restaurant where for the first time met and kissed. It is necessary to surround itself with a situation of a positive and romanticism, to remember how you were happy with each other as you promised to love each other, despite everything.