The most romantic and the relations seeming very strong need "therapy". At different stages of joint life of steam passes certain stages of development of the relations – from crisis to the most gentle. It is important not to allow to go out to love fire with which everything began.
Instruction
1. Find out all misunderstanding. The habit to endure everything deeply inside, not to discuss a problem with the partner, leads to emergence of coldness between two loving people. The long internal conflict can pour out in a heavy depression and desire to break off the relations. You learn to communicate openly and confidentially, you do not harbor a grudge and ask for the help the loved one. The your relations will be more sincere and more open, the longer they will last.
2. Be attentive to each other. Give the partner compliments, admire his personal qualities, working achievements, ability to solve problems. It is necessary to estimate what is done by partners for each other in everyday, household life daily – to praise the wife for a tasty dinner, to thank the husband for the beaten shelf, etc. Try to pay each other attention, and you keep proximity.
3. Surprise each other. To surprise – it does not mean to present smart and expensive gifts. Small surprises, care manifestation, unexpected meetings and trips – save your relations from a routine. You give gifts – small, but significant only for you two. Choose things intimate and practical, raise the surprised smile upon the face of the partner.
4. Find each other free time. You spend together evenings and days off – not all, but them has to be enough in order that each of you did not feel deprived and left. In your life there have to be hobbies and a hobby, but to cancel one meeting with friends and to invite the partner to walk not so difficult. An opportunity to stay alone, to discuss problems and to share impressions, is necessary – simple communication means sometimes not less, than declarations of love. To each of you will pleasantly realize that it holds a specific place in the partner's life.
5. Divide duties. At the very beginning of the relations very few people think of what is life and what consequences for the relations it bears. Many couples do not undergo testing at this stage when there is a household grinding in. If in family someone does on the house everything, and someone nothing, then the conflict is inevitable. If you learn to solve household problems together, then divide responsibility, turn banal shopping in opportunity to stay together.