Men by the nature are inclined to pursue the woman, to try to obtain it. As a rule, such courtings are pleasant to women. However, if you do not take a liking for the boyfriend and are not going to enter with him close relations, it is necessary to learn to keep the man at arm's length.
Instruction
1. Avoid long contact by eyes. At a conversation fluently look in a face and immediately you translate a view of something another.
2. If the man flirts, pretend that you do not understand hints, react to everything told seriously or just ignore.
3. Try not to remain with the man alone. If you have to go together somewhere, take the girlfriend or other attendant. When, despite all efforts, all of you remain in private with the man, avoid even fluent contact by eyes, you look around. You transfer a conversation to acquaintances or discussion of some pressing problems.
4. Very clearly let know that the man is indifferent for you. In communication keep distant politeness. Do not allow either fits of anger, or coquetry in relation to the man.
5. Let the man know that you already have someone, and this person can stand for you.
6. Stop any attempts of physical contact. If the man approaches too close and interferes in your personal space, depart, having restored between you a neutral distance. When there is no place to depart, you will be helped out by any pose which "is translated" from language of a body as "closed". If to the tiresome boyfriend takes in head to embrace you, take away from yourself his hand and accompany this action with the remark sustained in the spirit of the same distant politeness.
7. Avoid to accept gifts which to something oblige you from the man. For example, if it is your chief, and by a holiday on March 8 he made a small gift to each employee, can accept such gift. However if you are given an individual gift in addition the road, it is necessary to refuse it.
8. With the man who bothers you with the feelings support a talk of exclusively practical character. For example, if the annoying boyfriend – your colleague, talk to him only about work. Stop attempts to transfer a conversation to personal subjects words that you have an urgent task and other similar excuses.