Sometimes so it happens that two loving hearts are in separation. Having got into this difficult situation, it is not so simple to keep the relations at distance. Then all moments which you endured together get value. Whether it be joint cooking, walk on shops or any other event. All of them generate feeling of participation in each other life now, haunt.
Heavier than everything to keep the relations at distance to those couples which already got used to live together and every day to see each other. As communication will happen only by voice or the text now, there can be such problems as a lack of communication and innuendo. And though there is a set of technologies, like social networks or video calls today, but emotional bond which people get at physical contact, they will not provide.
One more problem of the relations at distance is the impossibility to find out all disputes and peripetias up to the end. The people who are far apart cannot having scolded reconcile and discuss current situation quietly. Someone in couple can begin to ignore messages and calls while the partner has no opportunity to come and understand a situation. Each quarrel in this case can be the last.
Loss of trust – the next danger which traps the people having relations at distance. There will be no opportunity to check, darling deceives you or not. Here everything will already depend on personal qualities of any given person as far as he is subject to jealousy, etc.
At distance it is heavy to maintain the relations also to those people who have material problems. To see the soulmate, it is necessary to be spent much. Are expensive as well parcels, long distance calls and so forth. As to keep the relations at distance? First of all both the man, and the woman need to represent the joint future accurately. You can make joint plans, discuss future meetings. One more component is the romanticism. Of course, where without it. It is possible to tell about the love in millions of ways. Darling can send candies, souvenirs, cards, flowers and other, having paid all this, for example, with electronic payment. You can make a date in Skype, or send the collection of favourite songs of VKontakte. Try to include imagination and to understand that your half loves, than she can be surprised. Being far, try to share what occurs at you in life. It is very important point and if not to observe it, having met after long separation, you will have nothing to talk. Moreover, you can become for each other absolutely foreign people. Try to keep in touch and not to feel sorry for warm words for the darlings. You should not conduct thus monastic life. Develop yourself, find time for interesting work, a hobby, friends. Try to turn time in separation in, so-called, growth time. It will allow to open the mass of the new horizons and opportunities, to develop the personality. Begin to master drawing, yoga or belly dance. Both lovers have to believe that the relations at distance are not a barrier and there is always a chance to quickly overcome kilometers. Do not give up if you are sure that this person is your true love. Only then the distance will become wind which will allow big fire to inflame even stronger, and small – will extinguish.