In any relations there are crises sooner or later. If you with the partner became more rare to communicate, notice in each other more shortcomings, than advantages, often express discontent, are irritated, suspect or are jealous each other - means time for improvement of the relations came. If not to take measures, the situation will be aggravated, and the love will hardly manage to be kept.
Instruction
1. Have with the partner a heart-to-heart talk. Close relations cannot be under construction without confidential communication, openness, sincerity. Tell darling about what haunts you what you would like to change what you aspire to.
2. Ask the partner to express to you the claims and desires. The difficulty is in what men sometimes happens very difficult to bring to similar straight talks. They do not like to expatiate on feelings and consider that all problems in the relations have to be solved in itself. If you cannot force to talk to you the partner in a usual house situation, invite him to romantic evening in cafe or restaurant, drink good wine, create the favorable atmosphere for easy communication heart-to-heart. In such situation to the man not to leave from explanations.
3. Find out the reasons of why your relations worsened. It can be unpardoned offenses, the cooled-down feelings or even treason. It is important to understand for himself whether really you want to use the best efforts to keep love whether you are capable to understand and forgive each other for everything.
4. From now on express everything that hurts you, at once. It is optional to make scandals and quarrels because of it, but it is necessary to sort out the relations nevertheless. Accumulating offenses, you do not promote strengthening of the relations. All unpleasant situations have to be sounded. From each deadlock look for an exit together.
5. Accept the elect with all his shortcomings. If you suddenly distinctly saw all its negative lines, so your love passed. The love is feeling more realistic, but at the same time stable and strong. Only having accepted all shortcomings of the man, you will be able quietly to live with him, but not to coexist, relying on the patience.
6. To keep the relations, it is necessary to be able to forgive and forget offenses and also to respect and understand feelings of each other. Nothing so strongly destroys trust as a lie. Do not lie to the partner and if you notice that he to you lies, think whether you will be able to live life with such insincere person.
7. You spend free time together, diversify the leisure. Do what is pleasant to both - skate, engaged in cycling, visit the pool, walk, you spend days off in the country. It is useful to make the mutual family friends cheerfully to spend holidays in their society.