Marriage or long cohabitation are not a guarantee that it will turn out to keep the relations with darling for the rest of life. For this purpose it is necessary to take resolute actions and to work constantly on strengthening of the relations.
Instruction
1. If you want to keep the relations with darling for the rest of life, try to remember always that instant when you realized that you love it. Quite often people forget it and over time already cease to understand when and than to them the soulmate sank into the soul. At the same time it is important to remember that people seldom love each other for something certain, and the love sometimes represents the real chemistry out of feelings which intertwine and promote that the man and the woman already just cannot exist the friend without friend.
2. Nevertheless, the relations with darling are under construction on the basis of perception of its character, acts and other features. Most likely, your darling or your darling sank to you into the soul something like that that distinguishes them from other people, for example, sweet and soft or severe and purposeful temper, ability to quickly solve difficult situations, romantic soul, a broad outlook, sense of humour, etc. It is important to realize that hardly you will find somebody similar and so suitable your tastes and preferences.
3. A certain way to keep the relations with darling for the rest of life – to be always frank with each other. Try to conceal nothing from the soulmate and you ask it to arrive also in relation to you. Even if someone from you is tormented by any doubts, and in life there are ticklish and stubborn situations, it is better to pass through it together, than to save at heart cargo from a negative which can put an end to the relations once.
4. Be not jealous your soulmate without cause. It is important to trust each other in any situation, otherwise the constant feeling of alarm and a stress can lead to a nervous breakdown and groundless scandals. At the same time try to solve any contradictions peacefully. Quarrels do not lead to anything good and if one of them nevertheless occurred, try to improve the relations as soon as possible.
5. Be able to be reconciled with shortcomings of darling, and them can be much. Even if the soulmate seems ideal, over time to you her not so positive sides can open. But do not try to correct her after the own fashion at all, it will only worsen its attitude towards you. Just set a positive example in everything that the person tried to resemble you more often.
6. Do not forget that sex is an important part of the relations, and you should not neglect it without extra reason. Try to learn all sexual preferences of your darling and together work on giving each other the maximum pleasure. At the same time it is impossible to forget about romanticism: make a declaration of love to a thicket each other, you give pleasant gifts and you spend more time together.