If the relations reach a deadlock, there is no wish to think that it is the end. "Really I will grow cold to this handsome man?", – the girl thinks, going to another appointment. How not to allow feelings to disappear completely?
Instruction
1. Realize reality of the fears. Why the thought that feelings pass came to your mindyour mind right now? Do you suspect guy in treason or just miss near it?
2. If you feel that the man obviously grows cold to you, you should not bury the relations at once. The period of temporary indifference – the normal phenomenon, each couple goes through this stage. The main mistake in such situation is to think out occasions to be together. It is worth making the return – let meetings will be not frequent, then the attraction will amplify.
3. If in couple you miss, just afford it. Do you think, guys like only eternally cheerful beauties? It at all not so, at least because sometimes for lovers it is useful to share among themselves the general grief and to support each other. Such experience enriches any relations.
4. Sometimes the reason of fear of loss of the relations – jealousy. At one thought that around your guy so many lonely beautiful girls you squeeze heart? Just tell yourself that he already chose you, and the fact that he pays attention to others, says only that he is a sociable person.
5. The jealousy will come to naught when you cease to support this emotion with actions. Stop to shudder when its phone strums sms, refuse temptation to check an ego a page in "Schoolmates". Here you will need strong-willed effort, but over time you will lighten, and the fear to lose the guy will weaken.
6. Remember that to change other person whatever wrote in ladies' magazines, it is impossible. Trying to allay the fear to lose the guy, you should not control his life, especially openly to make a claim. Release the fear and give the chance to events to take its course. You will understand soon that your fears are absolutely unreasonable.