Early marriages, the number of divorces, constant quarrels and violations in mentality of the child – strangely enough, all this result of the fact that during courting the people do not acquire enough knowledge about each other. It not necessarily says that their marriage was hasty – couple can be long familiar and meet not one year, but not know each other fully. That it did not happen, it is necessary to remember some useful tips for found. Then your relations will be successful.
1. Observe. If you are ready for the long relations, then it is necessary to be patient and not to lose the head from love. Before hasty developing the relations, look narrowly attentively at the one who to you is nice also to his behavior. Can tell about much its relations with parents and the choice of friends. So you will be able to see the elect in relaxed natural atmosphere.
2. Do not promise. Very often lovers too quickly develop the relations, swear eternal love, and then marry only because already told a lot of things and, it seems, as, it is not convenient to speak about the doubts and the more so to recede back.
3. Be not afraid to be frank and decline to frankness of the partner. Do not hide the opinion and the point of view at discussion of important questions. First, reserve - it is dishonest in relation to your possible future half, and, secondly, the truth all the same will come to light and better let it will occur now, than after the wedding. Ask each other as much as possible questions. Discuss difficulties which can appear, and possible ways of their decision.
4. Think over appointments. Of course, to sit at cinema on the last row and to kiss selflessly much more pleasantly, than together to clean up the apartment or to shop. But, doing in common household chores, you will get used to each other in a usual situation, as will deepen your knowledge about each other.
5. Take your time. Only time can find pluses and minuses of each of you therefore it has to be enough and pastime has to be qualitative. Psychologists assure that the optimum period of courting – one and a half years. Of course, each separate case is individual, but the essence is invariable – happy and strong marriage requires time.