School it is time - memorable time in life of any person. The school leaves indelible impressions and bright memoirs in soul. The school teaches us not only algebra and physics, the school teaches life. But also in this remarkable time sometimes there are incidents and the conflicts. Received many two, swore with teachers, skipped lessons, broke a window, blew up a chemistry office... The reasons for which parents are called in school rather various. How to report about it to parents?
Instruction
1. Trust the parents. With them be honest and frank. Remember that they, as well as you, were once teenagers too.
2. The conversation has to be constructive. Therefore in advance define the purpose of your conversation with parents. Think what purpose can stand at the parents starting an educational conversation with you.
3. Do not begin a conversation with parents with abuse, abuse and search of guilty. From the very beginning set the quiet, friendly, trustworthy tone of dialogue. Yes, it has to be dialogue, but not a monologue. In dialogue after the remark you is attentive, thoughtful, without interrupting, you listen to the interlocutor.
4. If you have any objections concerning told by parents, state them quietly. Provide the weighed arguments in protection of the position. If you feel that parents impose you the purposes, express them the opinion. Of course, it is worth listening to parents. But sometimes happens it is necessary to explain to them that your vital purposes and priorities differ from their own a little. If this is soIf this is soIf this is so, let parents know why you chose this purpose and this way by what motives you were guided.
5. If the compromise does not manage to be reached at once, suggest them to postpone a conversation next day. Will be all the time to consider, weigh, estimate. The new unexpected decision which will suit all can come to mind.
6. In case of extremely unsuccessful conversation with parents, impossibility to adjust constructive dialogue, ask for the help the psychologist. Tell the psychologist about the problems. Ask him for suggestions as to you to be in your situation.