The ex-boyfriend, especially if he became the first love of the girl, will be remembered by it forever. But life does not stand still, after break in relations the people continue to meet, marry, bring children. But that if the former love rushed into your measured life again?
Why the ex-boyfriend can write
Once you met it, and you twirled the romantic relations. You were fallen in love and quite happy, but something went wrong. The relations between the man and the woman is a peculiar contract which is under construction on sexual, love, friendly, financial or psychological components. If any contracts clause is not implemented, people disperse.
Parting can be quite painful. But sometimes it becomes even more sore if being again begins to declare itself. As a rule, it occurs at the most unexpected moment when at you everything is already good also without it, and is even more often when the husband and children appear.
The reasons why the former beloved, a set can write. It is necessary to pay attention not only to that fact that it suddenly appeared, but also on what he writes you. If he mainly writes about how there are its affairs, most likely, he just decided to show you that to it and without you it is good. If he tells about the new woman, work, the car, etc., means wants you to regret about parting with such "great guy". This reason of your communication lies on a surface if to dig more deeply, it is possible to see its feelings which still did not go out. Judge logically why to the person who is already happy to report about it to you? Without a doubt, you are still not indifferent for him even if he does not understand it yet. If being more is interested in your life, he means to you especially did not cool down. Thus he shows to you courtesies, not each man is able to listen to the woman. If the former love frankly declares to you the feelings, you have to make for yourself the important decision.
Whether it is worth returning to the ex-boyfriend
At once remember what caused your parting. Not for nothing you broke off with it the relations last time. Whether it is worth making the same mistake again? Think of the real life. If you have a reliable man and you are afraid to lose him, be more careful, corresponding with former. Make comparative characteristic of two beloved and compare feelings which you have to each of them. Remember that there are guys who write ex-girlfriends just to unsettle them. Some of them want to revenge for the fact that once they were thrown. To solve anyway only to you as to answer it and whether it is worth answering in general. Listen to the heart, and it will tell you why the former love returned to you.