The relations between two loving people always mean logical development. Of course, by agreement they develop differently, but how often there is a wish that everything was simply and clear, as clear as a day and, surely, was long and happily. And also strongly there is no wish to be mistaken, disappointed in darling. What to do when visit doubts – whether the man loves? Whether it is worth paying attention to an inner voice – it is told by a female intuition or the increased uneasiness, fear to be mistaken?
Instruction
1. Talk. The best way to learn intentions of each other is to discuss together, openly, all nuances of your relations. And in general, talk with each other about the purposes, values, opinions more. It does not mean that it is necessary to ask directly "And you marry me?", "And you love me?", you can be answered what you wish to hear. Just be interested in the person, his thoughts, conclusions, experience. Considering natural avarice on manifestation of emotions and words at some men, your suspicions can be unreasonable.
2. Observe. If the relations are not so open, stood at one stage, or there are suspicions on what darling plays you. Even if everything is good, and you are just gnawed by curiosity – whether the man loves. It does not mean to arrange shadowing, with detectives or with suspicion to check all incoming calls and SMS. But you can detached observe behavior of darling, his eyes, gestures, a mimicry, manner of a conversation with you. As psychologists speak if you see one, you hear another, and an intuition feel the third, so "objegorivat" you. Such feeling of dissonance, misunderstanding, confusion in soul of the woman arises with an ulterior motive and causes uncontrollable splashes in emotions. Perhaps, to proximity with you he shows active interest, and after – dies away, becomes cold, irritable. Though irritation still it is possible to hide, but here an uninteresting look aside, the closed pose (the brushes crossed on a breast or linked), and even the feet of legs directed to an exit – are audible and speak about much.
3. Analyze. Reject for a while all feelings, offenses, experiences, fears eclipsing reason. Present that you are cold and rational, more than ever. Take courage and think over the following questions. How often the man says that he loves you? Men can say what the woman wishes to hear. Whether the man says what he loves you for? It is possible to fall in love with a smile, laughter, eccentricity. But it is possible to love only all partner – completely, with merits and demerits. Whether he shows such attitude towards you?
4. Think whether often you talk about plans for the future, or it is the closed subject? Initiate a conversation on this subject if the level of your relationship allows. Of course, for the second day of appointments to speak about it it is inappropriate, but if you together more than a year, and the man refers to the fact that it is necessary to look narrowly each other and to speak about it early, - it is worth thinking.
5. Remember, how often you quarrel. Of course, quarrels excite the relations, diversify emotions, and without them it would be boring for much. But, you see, such "roller coaster" hardly anyone will sustain all life. And the reasons for quarrels can be different, or objective, such as discrepancy of views (which, after all, can be reduced to a common denominator), or biased – simple cavils to trifles, irritations on trifles.
6. Analyze as your partner endures at least short separation. Whether darling with freedom, rest, fun without the half is inspired? Or he often calls you, worries about you, misses and wishes a meeting. And in general, as far as the man is active in your relations?
7. Well and the last, consider as your darling calls you. It is difficult to present the loving couple without lovely traditions of pet names. But, after all, frequent "darling", "small fish", "pussycat" are quite depersonalized, by them it is possible to call anyone, and here calling each other by name, or to tender derivatives of a name, loving emphasize respect for the identity of each other, recognition of identity of each other.