We spend a lot of time, choosing work, new clothes or the equipment. At selection we have a number of parameters according to which we make the choice: approaches - we take, does not approach - we leave. The same scheme works also for the man who seems to us our soulmate
It is required to you
- Paper, handle and quiet room
Instruction
1. We use reason: Present the ideal man and write his characteristics on paper: appearance, traits of character, hobby and another. It is necessary to forget about those men what is near now and whom you meet. Give vent to the dreams!
2. Put priorities in the lines of your soulmate described earlier from 1 to 3 (1 - the least significant line, 2 - average degree of the importance, 3-the most significant. For example, in the previous step it turned out: plays sports, earns by 50,000 rubles a month, loves children. You are not ready to children yet and want them only in the future therefore to this line we put value 1. Are you sure: the man - the supporter of family and the getter, respectively income level is very important and we put to it coefficient 3. You play sports occasionally, but always in good physical shape therefore this line received degree 2.
3. It is necessary to divide the sheet of paper into two columns and to entitle them "Is at (a name of the man)" and "Is not present at (a name of the man)". And now take a portrait of the ideal and carry the lines written earlier on these columns: the trait of character coincided - we write down in the column "Is at (a Name of the Man)", did not coincide - "Is not present at (a name of the man)". After that, near each line put down coefficient of the importance and summarize them. To turn out as a result number and the sum of degrees of the importance for you the coincided and not coincided lines of the ideal soulmate and the present elect.
4. We use feelings: there is a wish to become better for it: to watch its favourite movie, to learn to cook favourite dishes, to lose weight also many other things. It is a positive indicator for the man if thus you is not dissolved in the elect and forget about the interests, about yourself. Trace - at self-development for the good of the relations with the man that remained from you.
5. The popular wisdom and psychologists claim that the silence indicator is important. With the soulmate it has to be comfortable to be silent for hours and at the same time not to feel discomfort, feeling emptiness. It is just good to you to be together. At the same time desires of each other are understood at the nonverbal level (without words) because you feel each other.
6. Present that you with the man were left some in the room without books, the computer and the TV for a week. There is no opportunity to descend somewhere or to meet someone else. Whether it will be boring for you together? If yes - it is necessary to think why if is not present - it it, your man!