As they say, love cannot be ordered. How many you tried to charm the boy, he will not be yours if itself does not come to it. The mutual sympathy often arises, apparently, from scratch. Happens, it grows from mutual hostility. It happens and so that people see each other every day, communicate, but have to each other no feelings.
Instruction
1. To learn whether there is between you this most mutual sympathy or not, it is possible on a number of signs. They are so individual that absolute confidence in one case can be just deception in another. One of such signs, maybe, sign which is the most difficult for understanding and deciphering, - a look. Eyes often give us away when all the rest we still subordinate to the will. Observe how he looks at you and try to read this look. But be careful: suddenly he looks at you only because you all the time for it stare?
2. The following sign - its attitude towards you. Here it is necessary to proceed from this as far as you are already close. Agree, one business if you just study in one class, another - if you are on friendly terms many years, but without hint on romantic feelings. The attention will be shown from the close friend and just good acquaintance differently. Differently the attention is shown by the people differing with temperament. For example, the melancholiac will long sit, looking at you in all eyes and secretly writing you verses, but will not guess to open before you a door. To the contrary, some cheerful, active young man, such ""regular guy"", maybe, and without having to you deep feelings, will look after you and to sweep away motes about yours the heads - so, ""for a trick""
3. Attention and sympathy at many boys, especially at those which still almost children, can be shown also in a little distorted look, for certain familiar to you. Footboards, pushes, slaps, pinches, sometimes even a setup and exposure of an object of adoration to a laughing-stock - it, unfortunately, too happens. You will think that he hates you, and he at this time in all available ways tries to pay your attention to himself. Probably, you in his eyes - unapproachable fortress, and he do not understand yet that with a fortress which name - the woman, it is necessary to handle more carefully, than a fragile crystal vase.
4. Sincere feelings and sincere attachment at more reasonable age begin to be shown in a different way. Look narrowly more attentively, what does he think of you, having even noticed some of your shortcomings: whether he writes you still whether he calls whether he calls to leave to walk. If he sees in you shortcomings, but at the same time does not turn away from you, then you have all bases to think that you and actually are pleasant to it. Besides, if he listens to your words when you hint it at his some offenses, and tries to improve, - can be sure doubly.
5. Argue with the cold head. It, of course, is difficult, but sometimes it is necessary to be able to behave. If you like the person, it is possible to find (or to think up) whole bunch of signs on which you will tell that he is crazy about you. You will understand each his look, each word as that is wanted by your soul in love. Think the head because now the head can save your soul: if you are indifferent for the person, and you will wind yourself and will convince yourself that all on the contrary to learn the truth for you it will be much more sore. Perhaps, you will suffer for a long time, trying to get rid of this one-way love.