At the beginning of the action relations, telling about gravity of intentions of the guy, can have no time for the end clear. To understand whether the man with the woman of the serious relations wants or just uses it, it is necessary to observe his actions a little. At the same time each woman has to include cunning that the guy suspected nothing.
As the man if he has serious intentions behaves
To define gravity of intentions of the guy it is necessary to observe whether he listens to your words. And here it is optional to own abilities of oratory. If the man really wants the serious relations, he will listen carefully to the woman. If the guy at a conversation with the girl, distracts it means that he is ready obviously not for love.
It is also important to observe what look at the sight of unfamiliar women appears at the partner. It is known that eyes in love will not look around. The man who is serious about the relations with the woman will not stop with obvious desire and interest a look on each cute girl passing near it. And, naturally, it will not begin to brag of the victories in the past and to tell about rich sexual experience.
If after acquaintance to the partner there passed a lot of time, and he does not wish to acquaint the darling with parents and friends, it is necessary to think. The man who really loves will be proud of own beloved, he will want to present her in the bosom of the family and friends. If the guy is not ready to take such step, most likely, he does not see with the girl of the long relations. The direct conversation with it is considered one of the checked methods of clarification of gravity of intentions of the young man. But at the same time it is important to girl to be ready to the unforeseen answer. It is worth taking an interest at the man what plans he makes for the near future and whether there is in this plan a love. If at such conversation he tells nothing about the beloved, it is possible not to count on the serious and long relations.
Signs of flippant attitude of the man
His unwillingness to support communication about joint plans for life is considered key sign of lightness of intentions of the guy. Naturally during the first appointment the conversation about it will not come, but after a while the man has to start talking about the future and about the long relations. Serious men will not begin to reschedule a meeting with the beloved on the reason, unclear or nonexistent on that. If the guy really could not meet, he on it has to have a good motive. Also if he really loves, he will give preference to a meeting with the girl, but not with friends. The levity of intentions of the guy is demonstrated also by unrestrained compliments to the girl, concealment of information about private life, various occasions to retire quicker, a little vulgar simplicity at a conversation and the indifferent relation to the partner's problems.