How to learn to build the relations

How to learn to build the relations

To you bothered to be one (one) - came it is time to find to itself couple. If the candidate for a position of your second half already is also the relations begin to be entered that not to destroy them, it is necessary to work accurately. You should be attentive as the sapper: one wrong word or an act can forever frighten off the acquaintance.

Instruction

1. To learn to build the relations, for a start get rid of all the egoistical habits. Now you two. Simple example: if you smoke, and your second half does not transfer a smell of cigarettes, stop to pitch in a bed and to smoke, go on a balcony.

2. You watch closely for by the own words: be careful of rough sharp words to darling, do not compare him to the former passions, do not humiliate in the presence of strangers (and it is not necessary to do it in general).

3. Consider and respect interests and habits of the person close to you. If it is not difficult to make a concession to you, step to yourself on a throat and make what is asked by your second half. As a last resort, be able to reach compromise.

4. In order that the relations were strong, you should not check darling. Be not jealous him of each counter column and do not roll up scenes. Trust in the second half, otherwise continuous reproaches and mistrust will dement not only you, but also she (he).

5. You do not retire deeply into oneself. Certainly, each person has to have an inviolable personal space. But if on the questions "how are you at work", "that new", etc. you keep silent, to anything good it will not lead.

6. You should not forget also that ideal people are not. If you want to create or keep already available relations, you should not change the passion. Reconcile to those shortcomings to which you can reconcile and if they absolutely contradict your principles, talk to she (he) frankly. Try to reach a compromise, if desired it is possible to achieve it always.

7. At a stage of creation of the serious relations forget about negative points from his (her) past. Otherwise it will begin to pursue you and will spoil the joint happy future.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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