How to learn to concede each other

How to learn to concede each other

Did you notice that every time when you go shopping to do shopping for the house together with the partner, between you arises the tension ready to blow up any minute? Do you want to buy more expensive piece of furniture when your partner wants to save, you want to buy jewelry for the house which you think that correspond to style of your dwelling, and your partner considers it absolutely useless expenditure of money? From these small contradictory disputes the full-scale scandal can break out. Fortunately, time spent to do shopping for the house can be turned into the happy moments if to learn to concede each other and to reckon with opinion of another.

Instruction

1. Remember that not everything that you see in magazines, can be found in shops. If you go shopping for the house and look for a subject which you saw in magazines, then it is better to refuse this idea, or at least to consider the possibility that you can not find what you look for. Many of photos with houses in extravagant style represent furniture and jewelry which cannot be found everywhere so your search can be useless. As a result can happen that after the whole day of search, you will be on the verge of despair that will lead to quarrels with the partner. Be guided by other things for the house so that both of you were happy and happy with purchases.

2. Define the budget for purchases in advance. You just saw an excellent double bed for your bedroom, but your partner knows that he has no enough money for this purchase. Nerves, hysterics, reproaches will fall upon you and will spoil good mood. Define the budget for purchases still of the house and try to look for things, proceeding from this sum.

3. Measure space which you have. Before going on shops, measure two times space which you want to fill with furniture. There is nothing more irritating, than to find an ideal piece of furniture for the house and not to be sure of whether it will pass through your door or not. You will be able to be angry and accuse at each other for this omission.

4. Avoid the crowded furniture stores. To avoid quarrels with the partner during purchases, it is necessary to avoid the crowded shops. You will waste a lot of time, getting over among a great number of buyers and will not manage to see all necessary. It is better to go in search of necessary things within a week when shops are less crowded, but not on the weekend.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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