After parting with darling there is no desire to live further. All seems gray and poor around. Around ruin and disorder. And will proceed eternally if only not to begin to live again.
Instruction
1. After parting with darling, especially if the gap was its initiative, in life of each woman there comes such period when it is necessary to make a certain choice: to live further, to begin new life or and to remain to exist in sufferings and a grief, remembering darling. Of course, everyone understands that it is necessary to change something now and to learn to live again. But how to make it? There are several rules which will help to cope with a depression and to learn to live without the former young man.1. Posmotrite around and understand what reminds you of darling: photos, souvenirs from spots of vacation which you carried out together? Its personal belongings? A sofa which you bought together? All this needs to be removed. It is the best of all to throw out that you could not get in the lonely evening all these things from a box and again indulge in memoirs. Well if to leave, for example, with a souvenir or photos it is heavy, then it is possible to ask the girlfriend to take these things at itself, and then in a year or two to take away. Later time of reminiscence will be not such bright, and the former darling will not cause in you such rough emotions any more.
2. 2. Change your appearance. Go to beauty shop and ask the expert to cut you and to paint hair in such color in which you were never painted, but always dreamed. Spend in beauty shop much time and order a complex of procedures and services. It will help you to relax and derive a lot of pleasure, to forget about problems and, the main thing, to raise the self-assessment. Perhaps, after it you will think: and whether there was it, darling, is worthy such beauty how I?
3. 3. Grant the most treasured desire. Your former darling kept your figure? Because of him you refused to yourself sweet? Buy huge cake and call girlfriends. Behind a cheerful conversation time will pass imperceptibly, and it will allow you to derive pleasure.
4. 4. Evening with girlfriends can be continued somewhere in night club or cafe. Perhaps, you are waited there by new acquaintance which in a flash will change your life.
5. 5. Find to yourself hobby or new work. New activity will help to forget about all sorrows and nenastyakh which pursued you after parting with darling. The new hobby will help you to steep in cares and affairs, to get acquainted with new people, to create something beautiful and useful. You also will not notice how your love does not disturb any more.
6. 6. Go to a travel. Rest will put thoughts in order, will adjust on a new wave.