Our life at times develops at all not as we would like. The husband who lived in marriage with you many years leaves to the young mistress. Bitterly and offensively when the loved one betrays. It seems that life falls, and ahead one gloomy haze. But it only seems. It is just necessary a few to suffer and learn to live without husband.
Instruction
1. First of all, be not frightened the suppressed mood. The divorce is a most serious stress. And your offense, pain, rage and disappointment is natural human reactions. Also all thrown women feel.
2. Try to accept current situation and "to get it together". You need to build anew the life without husband (without this husband). It will be difficult – have patience. Time works for you.
3. Try to analyze your former relations objectively. It is necessary further not to repeat former mistakes. Do not consider that only the husband is guilty of everything. But also do not take all blame. Two are always guilty of family disorders even if one of them made obvious treachery.
4. Having analyzed not developed family life and having revealed the mistakes, do not return to this subject any more. Lived and forgotten. Do not thumb through family albums, you will throw out its personal belongings (the razor, a towel, cologne and so on). You look only forward.
5. Do not enter into the hasty relations: "To it to spite. Let knows that I not one". It is not necessary to prove anything. Live for yourself. Give yourself time to have a rest from the family relations.
6. You do not bury yourself "alive". Take care of the own life. Do new hair, a make-up. Do some shopping. Put on brightly and attractively. It is not necessary to wear mourning dark dresses, the mood will only worsen.
7. Think up to yourself a new hobby, but let it will be exclusively women's and active: belly dance, fitness, step aerobics.
8. Do not remain alone. You go on theaters, the museums, exhibitions. You spend time with friends. Do not try to be forgotten by means of alcohol is a way to an abyss.
9. Also do not consider that you are doomed to life alone. Let there will pass time, and the man of your dream surely will be. And taking into account bitter experience, you do not make last mistakes any more, and will be surely happy in new marriage.