Many men by the nature of the poligamna. It is shown that the man has the same feeling of love to several women. In the east this problem is solved with the help of polygamy. We do not have it. Therefore to create long relationship with the woman, to start a family, it is necessary to learn to be the one-woman man.
Instruction
1. Analyze the behavior. Find the reasons for which there were equally deep feelings to several women. There can be a reason for that – not natural tendency, but need. In other words, one girl can be pleasant only externally, another – as the beautiful interlocutor and the personal psychologist, and in the third can admire her outstanding personal qualities. In this case look for the girl capable to give everything that is necessary.
2. Think, love feelings to each woman are how strong whether they are the presents? Estimate the readiness to offer for the sake of one girl the relations with all others. Those who will manage to take control of an object, very valuable to themselves become one-woman men, to have to it very strong love feelings. If, having fallen in love with one, the person runs to others, so the relations and marriage it will always be in danger.
3. From purely practical point of view try to estimate benefit from the relations only with one girl. It not only financial benefit, not only lack of need to spend money for several women. It is saving of personal time which can be spent for forming strong and strong from one and only. And it, quite perhaps, will be able to replace all others. It is economy of sincere forces. Meeting several girls not to avoid a lie and lies which will lead to the conflicts. Means, the relations only with one girl are also economy of nerves.
4. Pay attention that many people who crossed a level of a social maturity become one-woman men. For them sexual adventures and in general sex departs on the second or third plan in the system of vital values. Together with a social maturity such qualities as moral stability, decency, vital wisdom, kindness, reasonably conservative view come to things. The men having such qualities will not begin to ego-trip, changing with all beautiful women around.
5. There are opinions that become one-woman men because of uncertainty that will be able to win other woman, except one. Because of uncertainty in the sexual forces: with the wife is quieter and failures in a bed are not so terrible. There is an opinion that the real man has to "make happy" as the bigger number of women is possible. It the delusions introduced in our society together with the sexual revolution which came to us from the West. In the western countries already understood inaccuracy of these representations and headed for promotion "one partner for the rest of life".