Offense, pain, anger, bitterness … There are no such words which it is possible to give completely all feelings which you have after treason and treachery of darling. But this situation not such and deadlock as can seem at first sight. If to approach it from the correct party, then it is possible to learn to live with the husband and after his treason.
It is required to you
- - "cold" head
- - "sober" thoughts
- - it is a little patience and understanding
Instruction
1. For a start reject all excess emotions
2. Further, already with the "cold" head answer the following question: "And whether you are confident for all hundred percent that treason nevertheless was?" In the affirmative it is possible to answer only when it was noticed by you directly "on the crime scene".
3. If you only suspect about treason, then it is better to ask directly about it the husband, than to suffer uncertainty and to eat itself from within.
4. If it became clear that treason after all was, then further it is necessary to work on a situation: to find out the reason of its treason.
5. If he adduces unconvincing arguments like "so it turned out", you should not agree with it. It is necessary to find out true reasons unfaithfulness. Both of you have to understand all their importance.
6. If the husband sincerely regrets deeds, then you should not chop off all your relations on a root and to take extreme measures.
7. It is necessary also after clarification of all reasons and occasions to answer most for itself it is honest and frank: "And whether you love it still? Whether you will be able to it, as before to trust after the incident?" Answers to these questions are very important, all strong relations are based on trust. Do not hurry with conclusions, carefully weigh all pros and cons.