Trust – one of the most important components of love. Whom you really love, and trust that. On the other hand, everyone loving to a degree the jealousy is inherent. At any time suspicion, and from it one step to mistrust can arise. There are situations when it is very difficult for guy to overcome jealousy, to trust the darling. For example, if he had to experience treachery of the former beloved earlier.
Instruction
1. The guy should be released from emotions and to call to the aid of the logician. From the fact that some girl treated him not in the most worthy way does not follow at all that all women such. For certain and to it is for what to reproach themselves. And in his life there were not most worthy episodes. And if because of it his darling decided that he is the unreliable person who is not deserving her trust? It would be for certain very offensive for the guy.
2. Inspire in yourself that excessive, invincible jealousy – destiny of weak, diffident people. Time the guy cannot trust the girl, so he instinctively admits the inability to hold it, to be for it attractive. Agree, it will be pleasant to few what guy from a thought that he, simply speaking, the weakling!
3. It is necessary also to try to understand a simple thing: the girl, having become your beloved, it is not obliged to treat you at all as to the only thing to "light in a window", to see only in you the meaning of the life. It is not your property, and the living person. It had interests, hobbies, a circle of friends, acquaintances among whom there are also guys. And what, it has to stop now any communication with them if only her beloved was not nervous, was not jealous? If the guy really demands it from the girl – he will arrive unworthy as the inveterate egoist. And the girl will have the right to take offense and refuse to it.
4. If you, despite all efforts, cannot get rid of suspicions, to you it is necessary to talk quietly and frankly to the girl. To explain to her what her words or acts aroused your jealousy, mistrust. Certainly, it is necessary to specify especially that you very much love her, you value your relations for this reason you want them to be saddened by nothing. Most likely the girl will be able to dispel your fears.
5. In a word, there are less emotions, suspiciousness, it is more than logic and common sense, and everything then will be as it should be!