The problem of relationship in each family costs not on the last place. And it is frequent peacefully to live and enjoy communication with darling, it is necessary just to learn to understand it.
Instruction
1. The main thing in relations between the man and woman is mutual understanding. But each woman prior to a meeting with the darling had hobbies, the of understanding of life. Therefore understanding that two different persons have different ideas of family life and its values will be the first step on the way to mutual understanding. Understand, the fact that for you valuably and significantly in family it can be absolutely indifferent for your partner in life.
2. 90% in the family relations depend on the woman. Of course, if your case does not enter those remained 10%, begin to carry out the internal analysis. Men very thin natures and silly to deny it. All of them feel the woman's attitude towards them. And approval of its actions by you will influence very well his satisfaction with your relations. Remember a saying ""When hundred times to call the person a pig - he zakhryukat"". Know that it concerns any your claims. I.e., for example, if to carp at darling concerning the quantity drunk and to focus attention on it even if it occurs only on holidays, he unconsciously, in certain cases to spite of you will begin to abuse alcohol. Try not to turn from a fly of an elephant, further it can turn back against you.
3. Each person has merits, but after the long time spent together many couples begin to see only shortcomings, and advantages perceive as due. Therefore make out all advantages of darling and you praise him for their manifestations. The main thing in your praises is intonation, tell the truth, do not flatter because he will feel it at once. If you criticize, then do not do it strictly, it can offend.
4. Exclude offenses from your life. They burden consciousness, generate anger, aggression, prevent to make the necessary and correct decision. Offenses appear from the fact that your expectations are not met, the self-assessment is underestimated from here. Discuss your claims with darling, but listen also to his point of view.
5. Happens so that the soulmate constantly says that you find not enough time for it, and it seems to you that all this unimportantly and you turn to its claims a deaf ear. If it needs it begin to spend more time together. Understand the main thing that it is necessary to hear other person and to give it that he asks. And if you really appreciate your relations, then a little bit it will become not so difficult to change the habits and behavior for the sake of true love.
6. You remember the main truth: if the person feels as darling, then he will begin to seek to make everything for your happiness.