In life of each person there are people close and dear to his heart. But, it is kind of good you them knew, there is always something that is deeply hidden in the depths of soul. And if you are not able to read others mind, it is necessary to learn to understand what the girl when she suddenly becomes silent thinks of and looks away. Psychologists opened many holes capable to tell about real feelings of other person.
Instruction
1. If you want to understand what your girlfriend thinks of, begin with the simplest – ask her. Perhaps, she only also waits when her partner becomes interested in her sad look or a sad smile. Make it tenderly and gently, embrace the girl and ask the main issue: "Of what you think?". In most cases such manifestation of care does not cause any irritation.
2. In case your partner does not want to share secrets, try to analyze her look, tone, gestures, etc. These details can tell much more you about experiences and feelings of darling, than her most convincing words. Even if you not the psychologist, try to experience a condition of the girl at present. If you know nothing about similar things at all, read the specialized magazine or article on the Internet in which it is told about nonverbal communication.
3. Psychologists claim that many feelings and emotions are traced in movements which the person acts during sleep. Observe the girl. The situation when your darling talks in a dream will be ideal option. Only this way it can give the secret desires, disorders and alarms.
4. If you do not want to guess, and wish to know for certain what your girl thinks of, ask about it her girlfriends and friends. Of course, this quite risky action. Address the person who will be able to keep your conversation in secret. Perhaps, it will help to understand your darling better.
5. However before trying to solve feelings and emotions of the girl, analyze the behavior and mood. Perhaps, you wound a situation. In a similar situation nothing will be better than straight talk which will place all points on the places. Be not surprised if you have to share the disorders and alarms with darling.