At some point you arrive at an idea that it is necessary to leave the guy. The fact that the love left is the most frequent reason of such decision and here you already began to laugh at it in the company of girlfriends, everything in it began to irritate you, with it became boring and uninteresting to you. Of course, to tell the truthto tell the truth it about it will be the most correct decision, but as to make it so that to leave friends, he did not play on you any dirty trick and you are connected a lot of by good.
Instruction
1. If all of you considered and made the firm final decision, then do not wait when you have a new guy to facilitate parting, break off the relations, without waiting for it, to cause to anything excess offenses.
2. You should not report to him about the decision in the e-mail or to use the girlfriend as the intermediary, in it there is something coward and dishonest. Of course, if you are far apart and will meet not soon, then the letter – the only exit.
3. Do not allow the girlfriends to take active part in your relations. They, of course, can give to you advice if you about it ask them, but make all decisions independently and completely be responsible for them. Girlfriends try on your situation, first of all, on themselves therefore they advise kind of for themselves.
4. Warn him in advance that you should talk seriously and choose for this purpose the neutral place with which at you it is not connected the general memoirs and in which will not disturb you. Think over each phrase and prepare yourself for the fact that this conversation is absolutely necessary as it is better to cut off once, than to leave long and painfully.
5. You do not tell him this hackneyed phrase "Let's remain friends", in such situation it can sound a little humiliating for him. Most likely, he will be upset and offended therefore it will need time to recover and overcome the offense.
6. Do not think out the nonexistent reasons for parting, your lie can be easily opened. It is enough to tell that you changed that you had new interests which were far more important than your relations. Undertake fault for break in relations and thank it in those minutes when to you it was good together.
7. There now, a heavy conversation behind, the relations which so weighed you are broken off. Pogrustite, cry if you want, and begin new life. Your ex-boyfriend will estimate your honesty over time, and you with him, for certain, will remain friends, you tried not to offend and spare him his vanity.