Cohabitation with parents, as a rule, is comfortable only till a certain moment. To leave from parents - means to take a serious step to new, independent life. And for young family in most cases it is just necessary to live separately to avoid the widespread conflicts.
Instruction
1. Look soberly at your relations with parents. Give yourself the main reasons for which you would like to leave from them. Your decision should not be dictated by emotions and also be accepted against the background of small quarrels. The beginning of independent life has to be weighed and thought over.
2. Estimate the financial position. Certainly, optimum to leave from parents and at the same time not to depend on them. Quite often situations when parents purposefully buy meet or remove to children housing that the last learned to live independently, to make decisions and to organize the life. However in this case you receive only conditional independence, and will continue to depend on the family. Try to make so that search and payment of your housing and also all economic questions were only your care.
3. You do not hurry and give yourself enough time for search of options of housing. Them it can be much bigger, than it seems at first sight. If you move alone, consider joint rent of the apartment with acquaintances or renting of the separate room in the big apartment. Such option, certainly, is less comfortable, however will allow you to save significantly.
4. If you long time lived in parental family and did not conduct economy, you can underestimate some items of expenditure. It will be by sharing the cost much more favorable to pay many services. If it is about young family, planning has to be even more careful. Count all the expenses, consider alternative sources of income, make long-term plans for purchase of own housing.
5. Prepare morally parents for the moving. If at you good relations, such decision it is not always apprehended positively. For elderly people the potential loneliness becomes frequent a uselessness symbol. Train parents for it gradually, you adduce the weighed arguments. Try to organize everything so that your communication continued at the appropriate level. If you have with parents difficult relations, moving can become a step to their adjustment. Living separately, you will avoid small household quarrels, will see each other with each other more willingly.