In life quite often there are conflict situations. They create a stress, strain nerves, force to worry. Therefore most often people try to leave from the conflict if only they are not thorough rowdies. How to make it most effectively?
Instruction
1. The best way to leave from the conflict – to prevent it. If you know that in your environment there is a scandalous personality, or the person with whom you constantly have disagreements, try to minimize your communication with it. In case not to avoid communication, be polite and official.
2. If the konflikter after all involved you in the conflict, do not assimilate to it at all: you do not shout, do not row, do not swear. Try not to lose face, your enemy wants to achieve it. Tell that you do not wish to continue communication in such tone, and do not react to the opponent any more what he told. If it offends you, quietly tell: "I will not continue with you communication until you apologize". Also do not talk to him, you will not hear apology yet.
3. In case the offender brought you to a boiling point, and you hardly restrain not to begin to shout at him, just get up and leave. You descend in a toilet on kitchen to drink to tea. Do not come back, do not restore the composure yet.
4. Do not complain to the girlfriends and acquaintances of this person. Try to keep calm and not to discuss behavior of your enemy, thus you again and you will come back again to the conflict from which you wish to leave.
5. In case you become the initiator of the conflict, sort out what irritates you so what forces to go into conflict with people around? As a rule, what strongly irritates the person in others in any given form is present at him, and he just does not want it to notice. Deal with that part of who does not allow you to live in harmony with people around. It you will take a big step on the way which conducts fortunately and harmonies.