How to leave the friend

How to leave the friend

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If the relations sputtered out if it is separately better for you, than together, then it is necessary to think of parting. Often this process is very disease for both parties. It and is clear - heavy to leave that person who was close and dear earlier, with whom you spent practically all the time.

Instruction

1. Suggest to meet and talk. Choose such place where nobody will be able to prevent you, exactly there you quietly should discuss everything, and to your friend to think of how to be farther. For you this decision ripened long ago, and your friend learns about it for the first time. It can seem to you heavy, but you have to be extremely resolute. Show an initiative.

2. Surely think over all conversation. If you decided to break off finally the relations, do not shirk the last word "farewell". There is nothing to be afraid, you already made the decision. Now it is necessary to tell about it.

3. Never try to stop the relations by phone or in the letter, the message. Show courage and respect in relation to your friend. Explain everything at a personal meeting.

4. It is not necessary to promise what you will not be able obviously to execute. Do not promise to think and to perhaps change already made decision. Do not promise to meet again and again to try to discuss everything. The decision is made, and it is not subject to change or adjustment. Do not create illusions. It will be at first rather heavy, but then you will understand that you did right thing. If these relations are really not necessary to you, it is not necessary to hold them artificially, creating visibility that everything is good

5. Both more parties should remember that revenge because of a gap – not a way out as the friend can have an opinion that this step was correct for all hundred percent. To try to return everything on the places too not the best idea as it is impossible to construct the relations which once cracked.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team

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