Happens that the novel sputters out, and the young man understands that it is time to leave. The girl can be in the happy dark that over her feelings thunderclouds hung. Therefore it is important to report to the partner about the future gap that it is not really strong to tread on her corns so.
Instruction
1. Make so that the girl threw you. Be persuasive, suspicious or too jealous. Do not support a conversation, become boring and lacking initiative for the girl. You spend time with the partner monotonously. Generally, show the worst qualities or even play the bad guy unworthy such girl a little as yours. This way not always works. If the woman very much loves you or accepts difficulties on the love front as a personal call, your darling will try to re-educate you or will just reconcile to such guy nearby.
2. Pretend that you go to other city. It is too not the most honest way for parting, but if you are afraid of reaction of the girl and you can foretell with high degree probability that she will be very upset and will start big scandal, it is good. Invent a story about the translation at work or the distant relative for whom your help is necessary at present. It is better to choose the city far away. Keep in mind that such exit approaches only when your relations with the girl are at not a really serious stage. If you already live together, the partner can want to go for you anywhere.
3. Talk to the girl frankly. Explain to her in a soft, quiet conversation that your love passed. Try not to injure feelings of the partner and do not touch her self-assessment. You should not find justifications of the step to a gap in any shortcomings of your girl or her last offenses. It you will only achieve that the woman will blame herself for everything or will nurse on you a great grievance. If you want to leave as much as possible peacefully, choose expressions. Explain that your interests, characters and plans for the future too differ. Sincerely thank the girl for that time that you carried out together.
4. Just it is in exceptional cases better to disappear from life of the girl and to explain nothing. If your partner behaves a little inadequately and you see that peaceful parting will not turn out, perhaps, it is better to be gone from a field of vision of the girl. When one in couple gains maniacal dependence on another, the partner it can oppress very much. If it is your case and you do not know how still it is possible to get rid of the girl, make so that she did not see you any more. Do not answer its calls and messages on social networks. Do not remind of yourself in any way. If your relations did not manage to come far, this woman will switch the attention to other object soon.