Break in relations does not happen out of the blue. The most common causes – the conflict, mutual inability to make a compromise, illusion of incompatibility of characters or real incompatibility. But sometimes the relations just sputter out, reach a deadlock, one of partners understands that it is time to leave.
Instruction
1. The conversation about parting with the guy needs to be begun only personally. No messengers, SMS, phone calls and other ways of communication will give effect. There will be a deposit, feeling of reversibility. Therefore make an appointment and tell that you want to discuss an important issue.
2. You should not begin a conversation about a gap right after a greeting. Sit down in the lonely place where nobody will prevent you. After that in a short phrase of affirmative tone declare a gap. Possible formulations: "We leave", "We have to leave". Most likely, the young man thinks of it too and will not argue. Otherwise, whatever arguments he put forward what asked about, remain unshakable. To leave – means to leave.
3. After that state the gap reasons. If matter in the guy's shortcomings: unfaithfulness, aggression, jealousy, - tell directly that you cannot live with them. Do not trust promises to improve, but also do not show cynicism. If the reason another, state it. Do not offer ways out and do not listen to its offers. If the conflict reached a gap, then even this conversation will change nothing.
4. Some time whenever possible do not contact the young man. If you together work or are engaged in another common cause, then at general meetings behave so as if nothing occurred, but try to avoid its touches. Be polite and benevolent.