There comes time when the independence wants. In parental family all not as is necessary, and it begins to irritate. Besides, it is impossible to solve the conflicts with relatives in any way. And here, at last, in the head the plan of leaving the house ripens …
Instruction
1. First of all, think whether you are ready to independent life? Separation from parental family – tyaeely test for the person of any age, especially the teenager. You should do everything most now: to pay for housing, to erase, prepare. The clothes which are smoothed out by mother itself it will not be unexpected to appear now in the mornings. And to manage to make a breakfast, it will be necessary to rise a bit earlier.
2. If household difficulties do not frighten you, and you resolved financial issues, find to yourself suitable housing. You are not limited by time as when moving from the rental apartment and you can choose to yourself suitable option so much how many it is necessary. For a start you can rent the room in the communal flat or lodge at friends.
3. Try to talk to parents and other family members and to explain them the behavior. In this case you arrive as wise and the adult who made the decision and is responsible for the acts. Actually, in the nature it is so arranged that sooner or later the young individual leaves the parental house to construct own life. If not to know the instinctive program which got to us from ancestors, then scandals and quarrels can be explained with ill-breeding of the younger generation. But our congenital mechanism begins to work so that to cause the conflict of "fathers and children" and to push out already "the young adult" from a parental nest.
4. If it is necessary, ask the help for parents, relatives or friends until you move and grow roots on the new place. Sometimes the aspiration to independence reaches that pride prevents to appeal to someone to help. Remember that having moved to the new apartment, you will have no soap bought by the father the towel which is carefully hung up on a chair back by your mother.
5. Keep good relations with parents and family. These are the closest people who you have. It is possible to tell that truly human relations between children and adults begin when each of them feels the psychological stability and independence. Anyway, it is unknown how it will be died further. Try to keep heat in the relations and to hold a door of your new dwelling open for the relatives.