Almost all married women having lovers get up before a question sooner or later: how to stop this extramarital affair? How to leave without excess hassle, noise, scandals and risk for itself? The best option of actions depends on many circumstances: how the novel, what character of the lover and his temperament lasted long whether the man and the woman began to bother each other, etc. There are no common, standard decisions here.
Instruction
1. The simplest case is when feelings mutually cooled down, and lovers understand that "it's time to go". As a rule, the small phrase suffices here: "Thanks to you, I will keep the most good memories, but everything comes to an end sooner or later". And parting takes place quietly, in a civilized way, without mutual claims or threats.
2. If the woman is strongly angry with the lover, for example, he something strongly offended her, and wants to stop their communication on own initiative, the best option it will be simple to disappear. That is briefly to tell him (best of all, by phone): "We cannot meet any more, do not ask any questions, forget me!" and to stop all contacts. And sometimes at all to tell nothing. But it is possible to resort to such way only if the woman is firmly sure: the lover will apprehend it rather quietly, and will not try to revenge.
3. Very hard case - when the lover is extremely ambitious, with a pronounced "proprietary" instinct. If at the same time he is still inclined to hysterical and demonstrative acts, then parting with it is similar to a feat. He from the pure principle will try either to hold the woman, or to do her the greatest possible harm for "insult". As it so – it was thrown! The feeling of the hurt selfish pride can push such man on the most unworthy, even criminal, acts. Therefore the best exit here – to push it to a thought of a gap. So that the initiative surely belonged to it. And as to make it – the female intuition will prompt.
4. Well, and in conclusion, it is difficult to keep after all from council: before bringing the lover, it is necessary to think properly. Because price for the derived pleasure can be unreasonably high.