Gap – always painful and often inevitable final of the relations which reached a deadlock. Sooner or later one of partners has to introduce the obvious idea even if to lose darling very difficult, and the future without it seems impossible. If you consider yourself stronger partner in the relations, be prepared morally and start talking the first.
Instruction
1. Make an appointment. It is better not to talk serious business on phone or through chats. Written and remote messages are perceived is abstracted from speaking and therefore do not seem such serious.
2. Explain to yourself in front of the mirror why you want to leave. Estimate the words and ponderability of arguments. Perhaps there are also no reasons for a gap, and there is just a crisis, how at any couple? Or just solvable conflict which, nevertheless, should be discussed? If the conflict is unsolvable, speak it once again.
3. During the meeting wait when you remain alone. Repeat the arguments. Specify that you do not intend to resolve the conflict and a situation you categorically does not arrange. In plain terms and okolichnost tell that you want to break off the relations. Do not promise to remain friends and do not give a reason to think that, perhaps, the relations will renew. For this purpose give to both a voice, and a pose confidence and hardness. It will be very difficult, but make effort.
4. After a statement it is better not to continue a meeting. Say goodbye and leave. Do not promise to call or communicate otherwise. From now on in any talk do not mention neither the left relations, nor the gap reasons. Some time will be better to refrain from communication with the thrown man.