The matrimonial marriages lasting long time bring some people into despondency. In a pursuit of new feelings and bright emotions they neglect family tranquility and create the novel on the party. After a while for some reason decide to stop the relations on the party. But it is sometimes not so easy to make it.
Instruction
1. For a start solve for yourself whether you lose something important without what you will not be able to live further. Perhaps, you lose substantial material support. Think, maybe, it is worth holding off a gap. Wait until the lover is ruined.
2. Nevertheless decided to leave? It is necessary to consider temperament of the lover (mistress). Talk openly in a quiet situation about the intention if he (she) is a person balanced. He (she) will understand everything. Try to remain if not friends then to keep the positive relations.
3. It will be more difficult to report about it to the person emotional. Be afraid of inadequate reaction (a flow of swear words, slap in the face from the lover, slap in the face from the mistress). Then in this case you made really correct decision to leave.
4. Perhaps, expect revenge from the lover (mistress). Take courage and tell all to the husband (wife). In this situation all of them learn even if all of them were aware not.
5. Report about parting by e-mail or in the letter. Perhaps, you will remain pen friends.
6. If does not understand in an amicable way, roll up hysterics on trifles, control movements on the city, demand expensive gifts. It will quickly bother the lover, he will throw you.
7. If the lover is not married, suggest to issue the relations officially in hope that will refuse and will disappear. But consider its reaction (and suddenly will be delighted and will agree).
8. Just tell that the relations bothered, the lover (mistress) too. Such statement will offend the person and he (she) will leave.
9. If you hesitate to tell the lover (mistress) about parting, then think, can easier to say about it husband (wife)? Did you never represent such situation? Perhaps, this fine decision, and you will be in more favorable situation, than present.