The beloved for some reason is not in good spirits?! Responds to your inquiries evasively or persistently keeps silent, or at all suddenly will become angry. For any woman it is an unpleasant surprise. He loves her, he never from her hid anything. Here just right or to burst into tears, feeling sorry for itself, unfairly offended, or in general to fall into the most real depression: "Grew cold? Stopped loving? Found another?" And there no distance before large scandal or at all – a gap.
Instruction
1. First of all you need to understand that men endure the problems and failures absolutely in a different way, than women. They (with rare exception) "are not cried on" shoulder the friend, and suffer silently, kind of in themselves. Therefore if you will see that your darling obviously not in the spirit of, but does not want to be frank – do not insist. Let's it recover "to cool down" quietly, so to speak. And already then carefully step by step try to learn the reason of his bad mood. And you do not say at all: "What nonsense! And because of it?" Especially – do not laugh! From your point of view its trouble can be worth nothing it, and for it she is similar to doomsday.
2. Smile. Tell that you strongly love it that for you it is very best the best in the world. It is pleasant to you too when he tells the same pleasant words in your address! Tell that the problem will surely be solved and do not cost that he so was nervous. Feed him with a tasty dinner (you remember wise words: "The way to heart of the man lies through his stomach"?). Turn on its favourite music (it is only quiet). Even if he will take seat to watch football which you hate – reconcile and keep silent! He suffers when you shed tears over the unfortunate heroine of the next series. And, above all, at least, you do not load it in this evening the problems and complaints. Even if there is a strong wish to complain of the nasty neighbor (options: importunate mother-in-law, silly woman chief, infection girlfriend). Postpone it until more suitable time.
3. If your darling is still angry and gloomy. Remember that you – first of all the woman. Arrange to it romantic night! Any normal man will definitely not resist such "consolation". And he will be sincerely grateful to you.