When to the loved one it is bad, there is a wish to lighten him the mood – to embrace, calm, make tea, to suggest to watch the movie together or to call somewhere. It is much more difficult to give support if you are not near. But even being at distance, all of you will be able equally to help the person, dear to you.
The ordinary informal conversation is capable to work wonders. If you noticed that your friend or darling is in dejectedness, suggest it to share the problems. Be prepared for a conversation: you have to be in the quiet room – difficult to listen toy a sad story, being in transport or in the bustling street, and constantly asking again. For several minutes completely devote yourself to a conversation and allow other person to pour out to you the grief. Perhaps, one it will help it to feel better.
Laughter lightens the mood. To improve a condition of your close, tell it a cheerful story which happened to you, send a joke in the SMS message, send the amusing video letter, remember a ridiculous case which happened to both of you. It will distract the person from unpleasant experiences.
Make attempts to joke only in case you are sure that your friend will not apprehend it as inattention to its problems.
The person dear to you is in dejectedness, and for certain at present is inclined to see the world in black color. Try to help it, show that everything is not as bad as it seems to it. If the friend was thrown by the girl, tell that he is clever and nice. Remind the girlfriend who was reprimanded by the chief of the successful project. It will allow people not to proclaim the imaginary shortcomings a source of all troubles.
Sometimes there will be useful also flattery drop. Perhaps, your girlfriend really made a mistake because of which she was reprimanded, but now she sobs, and you need to console her, and it will be able to sort the defect and independently.
Online stores and the delivery services are capable to deliver purchase already in a couple of hours after the order. Use their services and please close. Your gift not necessarily has to be expensive. It can be a small bouquet of flowers, an accessory to the favourite gadget or an amusing bagatelle from the shop trading in suits and holidays accessories. The main thing that the person will feel your care, and it will lighten it the mood.
Unfortunately, sometimes there are troubles when does not help to lighten the mood neither the tender word of the friend, nor an amusing joke, nor admonitions that everything will be good. If you see that misfortune happened to the person, and to it it is very heavy, the best that you can make is to arrive, render the feasible help and to support him by the presence.