How to live together to different people

How to live together to different people

People can coexist with different temperaments, characters and habits quite wonderfully nearby, in one house or even in one room. Moreover, they can supplement each other, the full harmony as a result will turn out.

Instruction

1. For a start learn to respect other person. That you had such skill, it is previously necessary to learn to respect himself, that is to love and accept itself it what you are, including all merits and demerits. Each person has a certain value. Wonder: "What do I respect in this person?". Thus you will be able to make out its true value.

2. Dare to be yourself, and another - to be others. Do not try to change the person. All main traits of character are put in the first 5 years of life therefore with it you were late a little. Let the person read what loves, watches those movies which are pleasant to him, communicates with those people to whom he pulls him, eats that food which satisfies his tastes. Allow the partner who lives near you, to do that he wants, and do what is wanted by you. You optional have to have same tastes, addictions and habits.

3. Do not row, do not swear and you do not shout. If your half arrives not as you, and loves not that you love, is not an occasion yet to roll up a hysterics. All people are in own way individual, there is no truth, a common denominator for all. Therefore do not try to prove the case to the person who is right not less yours. So you only in vain will spend the energy while could use it on something more valuable, for example, self-education.

4. Be able to agree. If you want to watch the movie, and your partner wants to read the book, then try to talk to it about it. Perhaps, it will be simple to you to put on earphones or he will wish to go to other room. If he has no such opportunity, then try to agree with him about in what you will be engaged in the nearest future. Suggest to watch, for example, for a start the movie, and then to be engaged in reading, or on the contrary. Art to reach compromise saved the people from many wars.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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