Many people consider that the relations to which long separation threatens are doomed to a failure. Actually it not so. If you love the elect and your feeling is mutual, you cannot maintain the relations at distance. Strong, passionate love it is easier to kill with life and misunderstanding at joint life, than involuntary separation.
Instruction
1. Keep in daily contact with darling. It is important not to lose proximity and trust of each other. Take for the rule, having woken up, to call the second half and to wish kind morning and pleasant day. Presently to keep in contact daily rather simply by means of the cell phone, the Internet. If you and loved have an opportunity to come for video conference, it simplifies communication even more, there is an opportunity not only to hear dear person, but also to look at it, to see his emotions live.
2. Communicate at distance the same as would communicate, being nearby. Tell darling of a detail of the life, you ask for suggestions in difficult situations, learn how there took place him day and what plans for the near future at it. The communication will be more confidential and closer, the stronger you will feel your communication.
3. Adjust yourself positively. Whatever difficult parting was, the period of melancholy and apathy needs to be worried adequately. Do not fall into a long depression and especially do not show the decadent mood to the young man. Support each other and endure separation from optimism, it will not be eternal.
4. You are loyal to darling. If you seriously treat your relations, you should not be exchanged for flirtation with people who are indifferent for you, there is somewhere away your only and native person who trusts you. Do not give to darling reasons for jealousy. The jealousy at distance corrodes a human soul and is capable to ruin the relations. Prove to the elect that only he is necessary to you.
5. Try not to swear, a relation system at distance. In communication by phone or by e-mail we cannot judge feelings and emotions which overflow the person. Therefore some phrases can be understood by different people differently. Do not write and do not talk ambiguously. It is much more difficult to be reconciled at distance, than at close communication. You should not take offense long time, otherwise you risk to lose darling. Be able to look for reasonable compromises, make concessions in communication, say, smooth acute angles and show more softness and sincere feelings to the elect.
6. Allocate time that at least once in two months to meet personally darling. Such meetings take place extraordinary passionately and warm up the relations at distance in the best way. Separation will take place much quicker if you know that you time in two-three months will be able to see a favourite face and to embrace dear person.