You have many friends with whom you cheerfully spend time, you go out and you plan a holiday. But sometimes we want a friendly shoulder which will listen to all our problems, and will try to help. And everything develops well, you have such friend. And this friend of an opposite sex. There passes time, and you understand that your friendly feelings developed into more pure feeling. How to make a declaration of love to the friend?
Properly think
Many hesitate to sort out the relations in the future not to spoil them and not to lose the friend. You can reject all doubts. If your true friendship, then it anyway does not end. But at first think and be convinced that you are ready to the new relations. Perhaps you are simply keen on the friend? You are in love with him, but feelings are changeable and can thaw over time. In this case, the relations actually can stop. Therefore, wait a little, check feelings time. If feelings do not die away, act!
Act spontaneously
At the moment when it expects it least of all, take and admit to it. Be just distracted from works, turn to the friend and tell him that feelings which you have to it so strong feelings that nothing can stop you and you are even ready to accept its refusal. Tell that you constantly think of it, it is heavy to you to leave it. Explain to him that you open for him the heart, and it has a choice: to answer you with reciprocity or refusal. Yes, the risk exists, but also there is a chance that he will answer.
Plan the recognition
Write your recognition on paper, later invite the friend to some romantic place and read it the letter. It will be the offer of transition to the following stage of your relationship. Tell something about the joint past, the present and about what you see your future. Whatever way of recognition you chose, remember that at this moment the first sparks of future flame of your love are lit.
Let will show time
Try to spend with the friend more time, than usually. For example, you go with him to the cinema, on concerts, clubs, on any actions more. If there is an opportunity, go to a joint travel. If you spend together more time, your chances of success will increase.
Experimental appointments
Just try to suggest the friend to try to meet? If you, and he are in free search, and both are pleasant each other why not to risk? Agree that if from this experiment nothing turns out or one of you will find to itself other satellite, you will be ready to return for the previous level of the relations.
Just make it
If it seems to you that on your feelings, he will probably reciprocate, try to arrange one of romantic gestures which others already used.
He suggested you to remain friends
It was not kind of heavy to you from these words, you should reconcile to it. Try not to see for some time it and to change scenery. The true friend is the highest value in life. Is itIs it worth destroying such friendship because of the short novel? The love with continuation is possible, only if both partners love each other. If loves one, happiness in the relations will not be.