How to make a declaration of love to the guy if it is not sure of reciprocity

How to make a declaration of love to the guy if it is not sure of reciprocity

You felt to the young man something bigger, than just sympathy. When you see him, the earth crumbles under the feet, you want to shout for the whole world that you are in love, but restrain again because are not sure of reciprocity at all.

Game of views and hints

Intuitively all girls feel when they are not indifferent for the guy. But situations are different when the young man very modest and constraining, it is really difficult to understand that he feels to the girl, from his party of any steps towards rapprochement with it does not happen.

If you like flirtation, a game, then begin with hints. Make eyes at the guy, send air-kisses and observe his response. If it is pleasant to him too, and he willingly to make advances to you, so is chance that your feelings are mutual. Only that these games can continue for a long time and not pass a question into the following stage. If it suits you, then flirtation - the best way to hint that the guy is pleasant to you. In principle, further he has to do rapprochement attempts.

Question edge, outright recognition

If you want to resolve once and for all an issue of mutual love and to hear from it directly, everything as is about feelings to you, then be extremely delicate, men very much do not love pressure, they are frightened by persistence of women, and they often run "to bushes". Write it, approximately such text: "I understood that my feeling to you is something more, than just sympathy, and I write it at all not to hear from you mutual recognition. I write only because I cannot be silent, hide and pretend to be more. If I am a heroine not of your novel, be not upset, I will endure it. Time goes, everything passes, and at me this feeling sometime will pass. My self-sufficiency and pride will not allow to be humiliated and ask your love." Let the guy know that you deserve respect. He will be struck with such recognition and even if will not answer you with the same then he will understand that you are a girl of high flight, and you should be respected at least. After such recognition it will not be a shame to you to look to the guy in the face if you after all remain just friends because your recognition was worthy and sincere. If you decide on a conversation with the favourite guy, then tell him approximately the same words, do not press on pity at all, he has to understand that you, of course, love it, but if there is no reciprocity, then you will not die of a grief and melancholy in gray loneliness. You hold the head above and do not fall face down in dirt even if there is a strong wish. Do not wait that the guy will rush in your embraces and will tell you three treasured words at once. If feelings him really serious, it is not so simple to it to tell about the love. He can suggest you to meet or will invite you to an appointment, it will mean that he tests something to you too. If he apologized and told that he does not love you, smile and adequately leave, with highly raised head, do not show him the tears. Remember that it really sometime will pass.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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