The appointment with darling always causes awe and nervousness. It more influences development of the relations and can become the memorable part of the new novel.
Instruction
1. Gathering for an appointment, it is necessary to pay attention to the appearance. It is better to refuse experiments. It is more correct to girl to do an easy make-up, simple hair. Both it is preferable to woman, and man to choose comfortable clothes occasionally: dress, skirt, trousers, shirt. If you go on the very first date, you need to present correctly yourself, having emphasized the advantages and having hidden whenever possible some shortcomings. The appearance is obliged to be well-groomed and clean. Important criterion of perception of the partner is the aroma. The smell should not be pungent, persuasive or push away.
2. The perfect appointment has to take place in the place in which it will be cozy. Choosing the meeting place, pay attention that not too noisy and crowded place that nobody disturbed a conversation will be the best option. The night club will definitely not approach as you will need to shout constantly that you were heard by the interlocutor. At good weather the park will become the perfect place for the first meeting.
3. It is impossible to invite the new acquaintance in the company at all. The stranger on the first appointment will have embarrassment in a circle of strangers, even he is not so well familiar with you to cease to be confused. The invitation home will be also improper place for the first appointment. Such offer can be misinterpreted that will lead to disappointment.
4. Before a meeting it is necessary to think over suitable subjects for a conversation. Let there will be neutral subjects: hobbies, interests, music, cinema or literature. The found common ground in a conversation will make communication much more cheerfully. In a conversation it is necessary to show attention and interest to the interlocutor, correctly formulating the thoughts. The compliment given the partner will be useful. In a conversation it is also necessary to avoid criticism in someone's party, you do not know yet to what position your satellite concerning something adheres. It is better to be benevolent and easy, adhering to golden mean. In a conversation it is possible to emphasize unostentatiously the advantages, but the main thing not to overdo that it did not look as boasting.
5. At a meeting be yourself, smile - it is the best way to be pleasant. Do not try to seem other person. The perfect appointment is impossible without surprise. You can suit something unusual, for example, to invite the person to the amusement park where you will be able to have fun, or just to present it a small, but pleasant gift. Thanks to the shown imagination the first meeting can be remembered for a long time and cause desire of new. The appointment cannot be planned on time. Everything depends on mood, openness of the partner and the experienced emotions.