Each family during certain periods endures the take-off and falling. Not to avoid crises and quarrels to anybody. At the moments of rough showdowns it is necessary to be able to stop and take a detached view of a situation.
Instruction
1. Most often "war" is started by the woman. She is more emotional, she has more sensitive nervous system. How to stop the approaching storm?
2. Politely and quietly ask the half to keep silent and after that keep silent. Tell it that you talk about everything when she calms down. Suggest her to define the reason of her anger, let will be engaged in introspection. Sometimes it is enough that the quarrel stopped.
3. Embrace the shouting woman, press her to a breast and kiss. Caress and love you will achieve much more, than shouts and abuse. Most likely, she will burst into tears at you on a breast, and it will be much more useful to all, than a quarrel.
4. Very much try not to break. Create more space in a situation. If shouts did not stop, silently go to other room or in general leave the room.
5. When the woman at last becomes silent, try to discuss current situation quietly. It is necessary to find out what was the cause for the drama – your behavior, her feeling sick or the unlucky working day. And maybe, all above-mentioned together.
6. Usually the woman breaks on shout when not enough attention when she feels unnecessary and thrown is paid to her. It is useful to surprise and please the woman. It is absolutely simple. You tell her tender words more often, give compliments to her appearance, be interested as there passed it day even if it is not interesting to you at all.
7. Tell about the events – the woman like to listen and does not matter that she understands nothing in your work. Generally, let the half know that you love it.
8. Just like that, without any occasion, present it a magnificent bouquet of flowers, go to the cinema with it or expensive restaurant, at last, just hand it a certain sum of cash. Women are more material beings, than the man, they adore going on boutiques, shops and beauty shops and to shop, so they are suited. Having received from you money, any woman will at once forget about the discontent, carried away by thoughts of what to spend them for. Not important, this thing will be useful or it will be just lovely kickshaw, the mood of the woman will improve anyway.
9. If not to forget to make all these simple tricks regularly, at least several times a month – there is no speech, of course, about compliments to admire the woman it is necessary to try every day – there are no doubts that your darling will be happy. So, drama situations if do not disappear absolutely from your life, then their number considerably will decrease.